Girls have no parents who are laughed at by their classmates.

The recent hit drama "Come on! Mom, a modern female urban growth drama, a family education and parenting drama. The story is ups and downs and thought-provoking. Does watching the drama make you feel the importance of family for a person's growth?

Let's talk about Zhou Nannan, the protagonist played by Yuqi Zhang. The character is a character who dares to love and hate. She dares to act boldly. After breaking up with her ex-boyfriend, she found herself pregnant unexpectedly, bravely endured the eyes of everyone and gave birth to a child, becoming a single mother.

Deduct the hard work of a single mother. Before I worked hard in the bank, I had to endure not only the oppression and bullying of my black colleagues, but also the constant poaching of customers by my colleagues. On the other hand, her son Xiaoyang managed to squeeze into a high-quality kindergarten, but was excluded. She also had to endure the cold-eyed blows of other mothers in kindergarten.

Life can be described as a mess. Zhou Nannan's mother is cheated of real estate every day because of reckless investment. First I got sick, and finally I took it out on the liar, and the house was taken away by the liar.

Xiaoyang, the poor mother and son, was hit by life. Lu Chuan (played by Li Zefeng), Xiaoyang's head teacher, saw the helplessness of this single mother and felt very sympathetic. He selflessly helped Zhou Nannan through difficulties again and again, and finally moved into his home with his homeless mother and son.

Zhou Nannan's character is very valuable, no matter how hard it is, it has never been defeated. The play suffered so many blows that it didn't collapse once. Maybe the sentence "Being a mother is bitter" has come true for her.

Finally, she and Lu Chuan lived together day and night, and they became lovers. At this time, Shuo Yang, the ex-boyfriend and Xiaoyang's biological father, came back, and he became an industry elite with a successful career and rich property. Re-pursuing Zhou Nannan, but was rejected.

Why don't single mothers accept their children's biological fathers? I don't think it is realistic. Is the plot to put men and women together? There is no inseparable hatred between Zhou Nannan and her ex-boyfriend. It is because one wants to go abroad for development, and the other is unwilling to have some misunderstandings and break up.

After that, Zhou Nannan's pregnancy and childbirth were never revealed to Yang Shuo. I think Zhou Nannan's personality is a bit stubborn. Why would you rather suffer alone? The child is not as old as his father and doesn't want to tell his ex-boyfriend. Is it too biased to show off for your own strength?

In addition, I don't approve of Zhou Nannan's education of Xiaoyang. Tell Xiaoyang in the form of deception that his father is a superman abroad and a superhero who saves the world. Let Xiaoyang always think that his father has a special mission and can't appear.

Although children are kindergarten children, don't think they are naive, just think they are white lies. As a teacher in a remedial class said in the play, Xiaoyang, you are a child about to go to primary school, and you should be able to distinguish fairy tales from reality.

I suggest that young girls should not learn to be single mothers because of uncontrollable factors, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of their children. Just like Xiaoyang was laughed at by her classmates in kindergarten for not having a father, she angrily pushed other children. Adults should be responsible for their actions. The birth of a life is not an accidental impulse, nor should it be capable. One person can handle a child. Children need their parents to grow up, and both are indispensable.

Look at another strong woman in the play, Su Qing (played by wuyue), an elite social lawyer. She is an outstanding, intelligent and capable elite in the workplace. She founded a law firm with her husband Li (played by). Both husband and wife are partners, they are very devoted to their work, and customers trust her, so the company can operate well.

Elite family, superior conditions, husband and wife are both career-oriented talents, and they are definitely particularly interested in children's education. Be sure to attend the best primary and secondary schools in the best kindergartens. ...

Su Qing, a professional and chairman of the kindergarten family committee, has great prestige among parents. Everyone envies her family, and she is equal to her husband, and her career and family are very good. The eldest son got excellent grades and went to the best primary school before going to middle school. The youngest son is smart and sensible, and his grades are good.

However, such families sometimes collapse in one place. It turns out that her husband is too busy at work to shirk everything, regardless of family and son, regardless of son's illness or school. Even accused Su Qing of being a mother. The child is ill. What about you? You must stop working to solve the children's problems. You should give up your career and work and return to your family, otherwise it will be selfish.

Obviously, Su Qing's husband, as a father, is seriously absent and dereliction of duty. Taking care of the children's family is Su Qing's wife's business. I always leave everything to Su Qing on the pretext that my career is too busy. Once, her husband forced Su Qing to resign and go home to be a full-time wife with two children. Finally, Su Qing saw that her children were behind in school, so she had to compromise and become a full-time mother.

However, a bigger crisis plagued the family, and their relationship had long existed in name only. Husband Li secretly hooked up with the company's young assistant behind his wife's back, and they even cuddled in the street, which happened to be caught by Zhou Nannan. Li even secretly transferred the joint property of husband and wife to Xiaosan. All this, with the help of Zhou Nannan, uncovered love rat's ugly face, and Su Qing and Zhou Nannan became friends from then on.

In my opinion, this family is in danger, and under the seemingly prosperous, my father's heart has long been gone. I can't find time to spend with my family, children and wife. Busy career, but had an affair in the company. No wonder the son and the father are not close.

The eldest son grew up in this family, because of the lack of parents' company, he became more and more rebellious and his behavior became more and more out of line. He even took the initiative to steal things, tore up his classmates' books, and deliberately surfed the Internet to attract his mother's attention.

Su Qing has a young son who is taken special care of by his mother because of his poor health and asthma. Since then, the whole family has focused on their youngest son. He fell down while riding a bike in the park, and his eldest son hurt his leg. Mother can't see him. She only cares about whether her youngest son is injured or not, and blames her eldest son for being careless.

All these omissions left Fu Xiao, the eldest son, in the cold. He is also a child, in middle school, and needs to be cared for, but no one cares about him. He caught his parents' eyes in a rebellious way. When he learned that his parents had a big fight over his youngest son's divorce, he collapsed and set himself on fire, almost making a big mistake. Fortunately, Su Qing saved his life in time.

We say that there are also great problems in the education of this family. Fu Xiao, the eldest son, lost his childhood at the instigation of Su Qing in his early years. In order to compete for places in high-quality primary schools, he did many questions. Let him lose his happiness early, and then be left out by his family because of the failure of junior high school. Parents are busy with work and have little company. When a family has a second child, I suggest that parents should attach importance to the emotional construction of the older child. This plot is unfair to Fu Xiao. No wonder Fu Xiao turned out to be so rebellious.

As parents, you should know that children's problems are parents' problems. Children can't feel companionship, care and love, and things will definitely go wrong. These are the inevitable responsibilities and responsibilities of parents. It's not that you don't want to do it Once you lose a child and have a problem, it will be an irreversible psychological problem for life and become a regret forever.

Finally, Su Qing gave up her job, accompanied her children attentively, and got her husband to change slowly. She learned from the conversation with her mother's clients that her mother is a very good lawyer and gave up her career to be a housewife for her son, which is a job she is not good at at at all. Finally, the husband is sensible. He persuaded his mother to return to the workplace and agreed to divorce his parents. He didn't want to see her sacrifice herself for their happiness.

Look at the third house, it looks glamorous, but it is actually a chicken feather. He Xiaohan (played by an angel) is a beautiful and dignified mother. She used to be a nurse, and finally married a doctor and became a full-time wife. Everyone thinks she married well. Her husband is high flyers, a doctor of medicine, and her husband's sister is a doctor. In kindergarten, others envy her family, because if the children are uncomfortable, she will help them go to her husband's hospital, so she also has a place in the school Committee.

No one expected that the gentle He Xiaohan turned out to be a depressed patient, and she was under great pressure. He Xiaohan, who once suffered from the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, wants to be a good wife, mother and daughter-in-law. She has been bearing the burden of shame. Facing her mother-in-law's critical, aggressive and dissatisfied with her all day, she adopted a forbearance method and did not conflict with her mother-in-law.

Mother-in-law is not satisfied with her education and thinks she is a nurse who graduated from a junior college. Her son is a doctor, and so is her daughter. She has her own skills, and earned this family business by herself when she was young. The mother-in-law thinks that her daughter-in-law can do anything, so she enjoys being her son.

Mother-in-law tells her what to do with her life, and she should also interfere with her children's education. I don't like her children's sense of superiority, because they are girls, and the old lady's feudal thought of son preference is quite heavy. Always talking about how good the aunt's son is.

Don't let Youyou play football, but interfere with Youyou's dress. Because the mother-in-law always says that the son is good and the boy is great. Youyou has a disagreement about his own gender, which leads to children's gender cognitive impairment. Said he didn't want to be a girl, wanted to be a boy, deliberately went into the men's room, dressed like a boy, and liked playing football.

Psychologists say that this is very dangerous, and if it is not changed and guided, it will cause sexual orientation disorder in the future. Youyou's illness finally overwhelmed He Xiaohan. She finally knew that she couldn't stand cowardice any longer. She insisted on moving out of her mother-in-law's house and starting her own business.

This family tells us that all the words and deeds of family members will have a subtle influence on children. We adults always think that children don't know anything when they are young. In fact, they know everything, and your words and deeds will deeply affect your child's life. Parents who leave their children with the elderly are advised to pay attention to the bad habits of the elderly, which will deeply affect their children.

Look at another radical school-Qin Wei (played by Hai Lu). She is Zhou Nannan's college classmate. Her husband is mediocre and enterprising. He is an ordinary code farmer. She is also an ordinary online shop owner. Qin Wei was not satisfied with mediocrity. She pinned her hopes of getting ahead on her daughter. It is a typical representative who wants to change the class through education.

Her family's family conditions are generally crustily skin of head to squeeze into the best kindergarten, desperately cultivate children, enroll in piano classes, and buy school districts even if they borrow usury, and their debts are getting deeper and deeper. Qin Wei is also vain and worships money, pretending that her husband is an elite and has money at home, and not letting children say that they are crowded by bus to school.

Afraid of exposure, don't let her husband participate in kindergarten parent-child activities. In order to attend a high-quality primary school, children are forced to practice piano and perform programs. Teach children to lie. Dad is a social elite and a computer talent in Silicon Valley.

The radical panic of Qin and Wei is frustrating. Don't talk about children, even we spectators think it's too tired to be her children. Netizens also said that Yue Yue was the most unfortunate to have such a mother.

A gentle mother is every child's dream. Qin Wei often shouts at the children and scares them. Enraged a goat's cousin, causing the child to be almost molested, which frightened Yue Yue and left him in a psychological shadow.

I want to go directly to the best primary school and buy a patchwork problem room, just because it is a school district. No money, no conditions to create conditions, but also to go to school, borrow usury, rob Peter to pay Paul, attract creditors to school, threaten to take photos of Yue Yue, once again scare children, want their psychological shadow area.

Finally, in order to show his face in front of the principal of the primary school directly under the Central Government, he forced Yue Yue to practice piano and perform programs, and threatened the children to die if you didn't perform well. This is your only chance. You can't go to primary school if you don't behave well. Qin Wei is really an anxiety maker. How can such a small child grow up healthily under such great pressure? How can Yue Yue's future psychology be healthy, lively and happy?

Advise Jiwa's parents not to be too selfish. They want their children to realize their unfulfilled dreams. Parents like Qin Wei, who overdo everything, care about their children's grades and want their children to become talents, have made too much efforts. Is there little news about forcing your child to die in recent years?

Look at the last wonderful flower. Zhu Luxi's mother (played by Feeling Pan) is different from other mothers in kindergarten. She is young, interesting, beautiful and has a strong sense of superiority, and she doesn't care so much about her children's education. The less willing you are to work hard to educate your children. It doesn't matter whether the child is excellent or not. What she cares about is her own happiness.

She was a "princess" before marriage and a "princess" after marriage. She didn't touch the spring water with her fingers. She had a nanny at home and went out to pick up the car. Delicate, can't lift her shoulders, can't lift four beams with her hands, and she is attached to her parents before marriage and her husband after marriage. She just wants to have more love and educate her children in a mess. She dotes on her children. Her child Isabel will know a foreign name. She spoiled her child into a princess, a copy of herself.

In kindergarten, I pretend to be a princess everywhere, instructing others that if I am unhappy, someone must accompany her to be unhappy. Arrogance and rudeness are the least likable children.

Her family education is undoubtedly the most failure. She is also the most useless mother. She knows nothing, and she knows nothing. A rich girl finally married a liar's husband. She lived a pampered life until her husband's business failed. Her husband took all the money in the family, even her jewelry, in order to avoid responsibility. She had to shoulder the responsibility of her life and face her identity as a mother.

We say that a person with a strong sense of superiority is not liked. Especially in today's society, you can't look down on others just because you are from a good family, if you don't practice your skills well. We can only say that your life is good with your parents' letters of credit, but you should also pray that your life has always been good. Isn't there a famous saying: "Heaven is good for reincarnation, and Heaven forgives people."

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