Hunter: The saddest marriage is not knowing the darkness at night during the day.

The above sentence comes from Chekhov's short story The Hunter, which was told to his wife by the protagonist Egor.

The heroine Bellagha Ya is a poor woman who does odd jobs everywhere. At the earl's behest, she married Egor, who hunted the rich for a living. However, her husband, Egor, was a prodigal son, and he never went home once in 12 years after the wedding. By chance, Egor met his wife, Bellagha Ya, who was mowing the grass in the field. Don't talk about Gaia's infatuation. She begged her husband to go home, but Egor repeatedly persuaded his wife not to expect him to go home.

Disagreement between the three views is a human tragedy.

This marriage seems to be an absurd joke. The prodigal son is used to a good life, likes the elegant life of his master's family and doesn't want to go to the village to live a bitter life. A hard-working and pragmatic woman who waits without regrets thinks that hunting is just for fun, not serious business.

The saddest marriage in the world is this. I want to pick up sixpence on the ground, but you pursue the moon in the sky; You will never understand my sadness, just as you will never understand the darkness of day and night.

Marriage with different views makes it difficult to move every day. Maybe love can be divorced from reality and only talk about flowers and moons, but marriage is not good. Marriage is a real life, consisting of three meals a day, and it is composed of trivial parents every day. Therefore, what really supports you through a long marriage is the three views. Marriage with different views is doomed to be a tragedy, and it will break up sooner or later.

Turn around in time and turn back to shore.

"I heard that you built a new wooden house for Lina Gu," asked Belagaya.

Egor didn't answer.

"So you like her ..."

"Maybe this is your destiny. You'd better accept your fate! "

Bellagha waited for her husband at home, but he built a house for another woman. After more than ten years of spoony waiting, what I got was that the other party accelerated to leave and resolutely left without looking back. He doesn't really advocate freedom and doesn't love women. He just doesn't love her.

No matter how much you love a man who doesn't love you, don't try to influence and wait for him. If you really love him, leaving is the best way. At least you have the right and dignity to love yourself.

This subtle ending may be a brand-new beginning for Bellagha Ya. Maybe she has forgotten this man and started a new life. Although she wasted her youth 12 years waiting, it's not too late to wake up. It is better to turn around in time than to wait hopelessly.

Some people are destined to be passers-by in life, and no matter how hard they try, they can't escape. For inappropriate relationships, it is a kind of free and easy to stop loss and turn around in time, and it is also a kind of life wisdom!