How to help a spoiled child who doesn't like learning?

I hope my original article can inspire you.

Let children fall in love with writing.

This article will help you whether you are about to become a mother or have become a mother.

I have read many books about family education and helping children learn. In terms of learning, I think a very good way is: if you want your child to fall in love with a subject, you must remember to encourage him for the first time. After years of verification, I found this method really effective.

Everyone remembers when he was at school. Do you remember the feeling that writing was particularly painful? If there are several well-written students in the class (generally only two or three), they will be loved by the Chinese teacher and entrusted with the important tasks of class representative, and they will often be eligible to participate in the composition competition organized by the school and receive special respect. Before my daughter writes a composition, I often hear parents of some friends and colleagues complain that their children hate writing. Even in junior high school, they often write very hard and often lose points because of their compositions.

So, when my daughter wrote her composition for the first time in the second grade of primary school, I reminded myself to use the method recommended by this expert. I remember that her first composition contained only three or four sentences. It only took me two minutes to finish reading her composition. I said to her, Baby, you wrote this article very well. Look, you used an adjective here. You really want it! My daughter was very happy to hear my compliment. Remember, even if there are only two sentences, you must make sure that he has written an article and find out the details to reward him.

From then on, whenever she wrote a composition, she showed it to me. I first pointed out her good words, paragraph cohesion, way of thinking and praised her, and then told her with my mature eyes where it was better to write like this and which paragraphs should be naturally connected. Because my job is to be an internal newspaper editor, I have a certain foundation in writing. Parents who have no writing foundation suggest reading more books, so that the suggestions made are professional and the children will think that you really understand and accept your suggestions. )

During the holidays, I encouraged my daughter to keep a diary. Without the task assigned by the teacher, she didn't know what to write at once. I said, just keep a diary! I saw in an article that if a child doesn't know what to write, you should let him keep a diary, because diary is also a way to practice writing. Because my daughter will get my praise and patient guidance every time she writes a composition, she is always willing to cooperate. Generally, at the end of winter and summer vacations, she has twenty or thirty articles.

When children begin to like reading fairy tales, there are always some beautiful imaginations in their minds. I encouraged her to write fairy tales, and I told her to write whatever you want. My attitude is: never joke, never set limits, so there are all kinds of stories about princesses, small animals in the forest and superman in the universe in her works. She also wrote crayon Shinchan, robot cat and Altman into stories, and the more she wrote, the more interested she became, because writing could satisfy her wild imagination, and composition gradually became a necessity in her life.

By the time she was in junior high school, she had started to write a blog online. A little girl who can only write online on weekends has accumulated three or four thousand views in a few months, which even my mother envies.

Writing enriches her life and brings her satisfaction. Because she is good at writing, her composition is often read in class as a model essay, and she is often arranged by the teacher to participate in various composition competitions. The school literature club took the initiative to find her and let her participate. She was also selected as the editor and announcer of the school radio station, and was often entrusted by the class teacher to preside over the planning of various theme activities in the class. Sometimes she even spends half a rest day writing an article to her friends, the content of which is generally a topic of concern to boys and girls, and often such articles will be circulated in the class and become the object of everyone's attention.

As a mother, there is nothing happier than a child's specialty and achievements. Although her grades in the class still need to be improved, I remember a sentence by the fairy tale master Zheng: A person who can write a good article has an advantage over others in any industry. I believe my daughter's future.

The above is my personal experience and opinion, and I hope it will be helpful to your family education for your children!

For family education, methods are the most important. If you have the patience to read my answer, I believe you will find your own way!

Personal originality, welcome to advise!