How to treat the sentence "Wash your dirty linen in public"?

In fact, the reason is simple, because there is no real empathy. You think that if you tell others about your dirty clothes, others will sympathize with you, understand you, comfort you, understand you and protect you, because you think that others can understand your difficulties and your pain from your dirty clothes, but in fact, in this world, where can anyone really feel your pain? Many people are actually holding the idea of adding insult to injury.

We always think that when we are wronged and unhappy, in our marriage, something happens at home that makes you particularly painful and sad. When we tell these things to our relatives and friends, they will feel sorry for us and think that we are right and the other party is wrong, but others will not. Maybe they will care about you then, but other than that.

You should know that she is your best friend now, even in front of you, but how do you know what she thinks of you in her heart? Maybe when you are in trouble, she will be happier when you tell her about your family. She used to be jealous of your marriage, but now she finds that your marriage is so much. Maybe what she said is comforting, but she will be happier, and maybe she will go because of these things afterwards.

Your family affairs can only be solved behind closed doors. Even if it's noisy, it's good for your family to know. Once you tell others, when you go out again, you will find others pointing at their homes, and you will become the talk of others after dinner. Do you want this?