The most selfish mother you grew up with was Hook, and the most failed mother was Tao Xinran. What do you think of this?

The plot of Growing Up with You is really getting worse and worse. Wang had an attack, and Waking up and Bing's work was in crisis. Families with children often encounter such problems. Focusing on work will delay children, and focusing on children will delay work. What is the balance between work and family? Many times, there is no balance at all. In the play, the four mothers have their own troubles and their own "small abacus". I think Hooke is the most selfish, and Shen Xiaoyan played by Tao Xinran is the least successful. ?

Among the four mothers, He Jinghua seems to be the most likely one to appear in the "mother circle". She can establish relationships with the chairmen of family committees such as Lin and socialize with working mothers such as Awakening. ? After waking up and quarreling with Shen Xiaoyan in the group, she sent a WeChat supporting Shen Xiaoyan, and immediately withdrew for fear of offending her. ? Wake up and Lin defend "stay-at-home mothers" and "working mothers". For better or worse, she immediately avoided the topic and resolved the embarrassment. She seems to have a high emotional intelligence, but in fact she is selfish. ? In order to ruin her son's happy mother's birthday party, Wake up also held a birthday party for her daughter on the same day, forcing kindergarten parents to "queue up". ?

He Jinghua specially reminded Awakening, seemingly making Awakening ready psychologically, but in fact he was trying to please both sides. In other words, if she wakes up carrying the new moon's mother, she should also tell her mother. Both sides want to please. In fact, they are more selfish than Shen Xiaoyan, who initially refused with a clear attitude. She also has the problem of giving gifts. Before that, she bought a three-piece set as a birthday present for King Xi for three years. After being complained by jiang bo, they bought a second-hand remote control car that Philip Burkart played for the Queen Mother of the West as a new car. I don't think either The Awakening or Shen Xiaoyan can do this. You can say no if you have money, but this hypocritical behavior really can't make you agree. ?

Besides, why do you think He Jinghua made friends with Philip Burkart and Wang Xi? This is not because the West King is worse than his own children. What do you think of He Jinghua's reaction to knowing that his academic performance ranks fifth? Not only did he feel sick, but he also mentioned it to Lin at his mother's party. West Wang was ill, and she didn't care, but she saw a joke. ? People like He Jinghua are actually very common in life. They do it in person and behind their backs. They are not sincere to anyone. She looks smooth, but in fact she is selfish. ? Shen Xiaoyan's failure stems from the failure of marriage, but the failure in her life is not because of marriage, but because of her low cognitive ability. ?

Not leaving home after divorce seems to be a kind of protection for my son, but it actually hurts my son more. In the play, in order to make Shen Xiaoyan look less like a failure, he assumes that his son is a genius. But in real life, Li Feifei will only become a "problem child". In this play, Shen Xiaoyan and Xiang Li appeared in the same scene several times. They either fight or quarrel, and Li Feifei watches or cries in the dark. This kind of marriage has done enough harm to Li Zao, but it is not the deepest harm. The deepest injury is that Shen Xiaoyan imposed the parents' problems on the children. Because waking up reassured Shen Xiaoyan, Shen Xiaoyan let her children and Wang Xi often play and eat together. ?

Li Feifei must have played with Xin Yue first, otherwise she wouldn't have asked her: Why does Li Feifei like to play with Wang Xi? Later, because Lin sent her cherry blossoms and red bean cakes, she wanted to send them to receive education, so she began to alienate her. King Xi invited Hua Fei to play with the dog at home, but Shen Xiaoyan refused. ? Waking up originally wanted to ask her: Why do things about adults affect children? Something happened before I sent it, but I didn't send it. Li Feifei originally liked Hope and wanted to attend Hope's birthday party, but Shen Xiaoyan didn't allow it.

More importantly, the latest story. Without knowing that Li Feifei and Li Xiang were divorced, Shen Xiaoyan inadvertently picked up her file, and all the kindergarten children knew about it. Shen Xiaoyan thought this was what Awakening said, so she deliberately went to find Awakening. When I go home, I hope Wang Xi can lie. At that time, I woke up worried that my son was ill, which was naturally not allowed. Moreover, under the awakening consciousness, the least harm to the child is not cheating, but telling the son. ? I don't understand Shen Xiaoyan, but it's my fault to wake up. ?

When I came back, I saw Li's paintings. He tore it to pieces angrily. As parents, the most terrible thing is to impose the problems between parents on their children, which will have a great impact on their physical and mental health. ? Shen Xiaoyan's distortion will inevitably affect Li Feifei. Shen Xiaoyan's failure is due to her low level of consciousness, so she can't face the problem objectively, let alone how to solve it. If we change the reality, Li Feifei will never grow into a "genius". ?

As a mother, you may have little knowledge and culture, but you must learn to respect your children and not impose your will on them. Being a good mother has nothing to do with education and wealth. The most important thing is to watch you and know how to give love. ?