Mother-in-law demanded a bride price of 1.7 million yuan. My relatives and friends laughed at me when I saw my wife's dowry on my wedding day. What should I do?

Sometimes I am really helpless, but I can't say this helplessness. A wedding that should be happy, but upset by bride price and dowry, is very unhappy now.

My wife's house is next to our village, and she was introduced by others. We are extroverts, so we won't be too formal when we meet for the first time. We soon became one, and gradually developed feelings. We confirmed our love relationship, and then we went smoothly to the point of talking about marriage.

I met my mother-in-law several times before I got married. She gave me a bad feeling that she was mean and unreasonable. Every time I buy something nice, she just ignores me and says I'm insincere. what can I say?

Because my wife is still very nice, as long as we can live a good life in the future, her mother can do whatever she wants. We had been in love for a year, and when we were about to get married, I brought something very expensive to my mother-in-law's house to propose. As soon as she entered the door, her mother-in-law looked cocky. I sat down to discuss the bride price with her. As a result, my mother-in-law asked for170 thousand as soon as she opened her mouth, which scared me.

Because getting married costs a lot of money, and our family doesn't have that much money, I'm embarrassed. My mother-in-law said that this is not much, and the dowry is particularly rich. I didn't say anything after listening to it, so I borrowed money everywhere.

On the wedding day, I specially asked my friend to drive a big car to marry him. As a result, when I arrived at my mother-in-law's house, I found that there was not much dowry at all, only a few quilts and some pots and pans, and there was not much expensive dowry at all. I looked embarrassed. My relatives and friends are laughing at me. I really want to find a crack in the ground.

My parents are also very unhappy, and the whole wedding is particularly embarrassing. Later, we went to my mother-in-law's house, and her mother-in-law gave her 100,000 yuan. But I feel uncomfortable. My mother-in-law let our family down. I'm also thinking about the significance of this marriage.