I always hurt others with words. What should I do?

Language injury is sometimes a heavy blow to others, and the most serious consequence is fatal. Therefore, you must pay attention to your words at ordinary times. Remember, don't use words to stimulate and hurt others when they are hit by some kind of blow, so that they are desperate to the bottom and forced to have no way out. Being kind to others means being kind to yourself, and respecting others means respecting yourself.

People who always hurt others with words should understand that if you are not polite to others, others will not be polite to you. Therefore, if you always use words to hurt others, others will not be kind to you, let alone make friends with you. Hurting others with words is not good for yourself and others, but more harmful. This is an immoral and impolite thing, and this bad behavior should be stopped in time.

Some people usually don't pay attention and are used to hurting others with words. When they open their mouths, they hurt others. What should they do? First of all, you should control your mouth and think twice before you act. Now that you know that you have this shortcoming, you must think it over before you speak, subconsciously get rid of this bad habit, and don't come with a bunch of hurtful words. If you don't get rid of this bad habit, it is estimated that there will be no friends around you in the future, and no one wants to be with you and get close to you. This is obviously a matter of your personal character, which is offensive. Therefore, if you don't want your language to hurt others, you must control your mouth and think twice. Use your head to think whether what you have to say will hurt others. Don't blurt out words that hurt others just because you are in a hurry. There is no reward for rushing to talk. If what you want to say won't hurt others, then you can say it. If what you want to say may hurt others, please shut up, then you are a hundred times better than talking.

Secondly, you can usually observe what those who can talk are saying. What some people say will make people feel like spring breeze. Why do people speak so well? How do you say it? You can observe more and learn more from others. Language is not used to hurt others, but to communicate better with others and promote your feelings with others.

In short, if you don't want to hurt others with words, you must control your mouth, think twice before you act, observe what those people who can talk usually say, and learn more from others. I believe that through hard work, you will gradually get rid of the bad habit of hurting others with words.