How did you change five years ago compared with you now?

Everyone will grow up, and I am no exception. Our country will have a five-year plan, not to mention us. Five years is enough to change our character and attitude. For me, what has changed between me five years ago and me now? I'll list them for you one by one and see if we have anything in common.

1. Consider things from two aspects.

Five years ago, I only considered things from my own standpoint. I don't care about others, as long as I am comfortable. Five years later, I can think about this issue from the standpoint of both sides. I can think from other people's point of view, whether this matter has any influence on others.

This is a kind of growth. I used to do whatever I wanted when dealing with things. You want to control me? That's impossible. I don't care what you think of me, but I will never do this in five years.

Stop impulse

Five years ago, I was impulsive. Some people even did some bad things. I couldn't control my emotions and asked him directly. Why are you doing this? Did I recruit you or make you angry? But in five years, I won't be like this. If I find someone tripping over me behind my back and trying to make me feel bad, I will never question him for the first time.

Because even if you question him, he won't admit it. It takes two hands to make a sound. I will carefully consider whether these things hurt me. If they do, I will definitely correct my shortcomings. Although I can't make everyone perfect, I can't impulsively target someone.

Because when you two are really torn apart, it is not his fear of you that greets you, but his crazy tossing about you. He is happiest when you are uncomfortable. As my mother said, one more friend is one more way, and it is better to provoke a gentleman than a villain.

3. cherish friendship more

Five years ago, I was indifferent to friendship. If you want to play with me, I will play with you. I'm sorry if you don't want to play with me, but I don't want your friendship either. I have many friends around me, and I can do whatever I want with them. But five years later, I cherish this friendship even more, especially the friendship between classmates and roommates.

It is always said that in college, you don't need to be good with everyone, just have one or two close friends. These two intimate friends, as long as you can grasp them, are the wealth of your life. Now I understand the true meaning of this sentence.

More sleek

Five years ago, I might have been very straightforward. If you do something wrong, I'll say it. I don't care what you do. That's who I am. But I won't be like this in five years. Things are more euphemistic, and what you say will always be repeated in your mind. If you say this sentence, it will have a bad influence on the other party and make the other party think more. So I'm only going to talk about three points now, and I'll keep seven points, which is not enough.