There is no wedding in Xin Wei's marriage, Ryan. Must there be a wedding in marriage?

Actually, about what? Is it necessary to get married? This topic has existed for many years, and forums such as Tianya and Zhihu are also hot topics.

After a long time, I found that this topic is divided into two factions. One school holds high the banner that marriage must be held, thinking that a person will get married once in his life and can't say anything. It is taken for granted that this part of the voice comes from the woman's family. Many family members think that his daughter, who has been raised for more than 20 years, may get married once in her life, so she can't help but hold a wedding, even if the grade is lower and the reservation on the wine table is less. On the other hand, the other faction advocates not holding a wedding. In this respect, I think more voices come from the new school and more young people. Everyone must be wondering why it's not her husband's family. In fact, the husband's family also wants to hold a wedding, because they also want to hold a child's wedding.

So why don't the new generation of young people want to have a wedding? It's actually quite understandable. First of all, the protagonist of a wedding must be a couple. China is a traditional country. Many young people's weddings are still in accordance with the old tradition. A couple's schedule before marriage is very full. Under the current working system, the marriage leave is only three days, so many new young people are not very interested in holding weddings. After all, the protagonist of this day is not so good, it needs both energy and physical strength. It takes a long time to deal with it, and happiness is complete.

So now many young people and enlightened parents have a brand-new definition of whether to hold a wedding, which depends entirely on whether they are willing to waste energy and physical strength on this formalism. Of course, holding a wedding has nothing to do with the happiness of their married life. It doesn't mean that they don't value it, but it will be a manifestation of whether parents are open enough.