Because a joking boyfriend said he was going to break up with me, I didn't take it seriously, and he broke up with me. Was it premeditated?

Breaking up has two meanings: first, you don't want to be entangled, you really want to be free. The other is that you pretend to break up and let you stay with him. You'd better find out the real situation when he broke up. If he is blx's boyfriend, it may not be premeditated, but it has happened anyway. Now that he has made up his mind, I don't suggest you go any further or stay.

In love, we give each other not only love, but also each other's bad temper, small temper, flickering, 1800 kinds of bad habits and so on. If he can't stand you, it's futile for you to stay, so what you have to face next is how to face the reality and accept the fact that you have been lovelorn.

When you are just lovelorn, especially girls will have an illusion that the other party will find themselves and they have not lost each other. The first step to cure lovelorn is to accept this fact, let yourself accept it completely in your heart, don't deceive yourself, don't hope, don't take any chances, which will make you accept this fact soon. If conditions permit, I suggest you get together with friends and participate in social activities more, and don't shut yourself up.

It must be very sad after being lovelorn. During this period, he can do what he likes, and he can "indulge" it appropriately, such as chatting with friends day and night, or even playing late ... provided that he takes care of himself as much as possible and pays attention to safety. You can "indulge" yourself, but only if you set a bottom line and time for yourself, such as a week. Once the time is over, let yourself return to normal daily life and adjust yourself to a normal state. Of course, if the time set before is less than one week, it can be extended to two weeks. The key is to realize that time is limited, and you can't let lovelorn affect your growth, and you can't stay too long because of lovelorn.