Cold salad is not a joke.

People always ask me, "Will all this you have done be understood?" "What would you do if you didn't understand?"

The first question is easy to answer. No matter who you are, no matter what you do, there is no guarantee that everyone will understand. Everyone's experience, experience and so on are very different, and the understanding angle and level of anything will be different. Then, in that case, why should I criticize everyone's understanding of me and everything I have done?

The second question is actually not difficult to answer. What if you don't understand? "Cold salad!" Of course, this is a joke. However, if you taste it carefully, there are many of these "cold dishes".

First of all, say "cool". Some things are not understood and accepted by people, mainly because everyone is in the focus of things and entangled in various situations, so it is inevitable that they will be hot-headed and dizzy, and naturally they will not listen to others. Therefore, it is better to let things cool down first and turn heat treatment into cold treatment. Let the parties calm down first, and after a period of time, make plans when the situation changes and becomes conducive to progress.

Secondly, let's talk about "mixing". When it comes to "mixing", it should be divided into the following aspects.

First of all, from the font structure of "mix". Since it is "mixed", that is to say, the original whole is changed into half by external force, or the original big thing is changed into small thing by external force. How small is it? That is, it becomes acceptable and understandable.

Second, from the literal meaning of "mixed". Since it is "mixed", it is to mix the original things with some other things and mix them together. What's that? As mentioned above, we should integrate what others can accept and understand. As I always say, everyone's experience is different. When we deal with things and tell the truth, it is better to put ourselves in others' shoes and say something that others can understand and understand. Maybe things can be clarified and made sense.