Why should we be good at helping others out of trouble?

If you want to be a smart person, you must be good at creating a harmonious atmosphere in dealing with interpersonal relationships. When others are embarrassed, try to help them out.

At a family dinner, Zhou Xiao always complained that boiled fish was not delicious: "I wish I could cook it during my menstrual period. She is very famous for cooking this dish." Menstruation beside smiled. The younger brother gave Zhou Xiao a white look: "This dish was specially made for you during menstruation today." Zhou Xiao got a fright, knowing that he spoke carelessly, and at that time he didn't know how to explain it, and his face turned red. Menstruation smiled and said to Zhou Xiao, "Don't be lazy! It is a fact that this dish is not delicious. I use sugar as salt, and I will redo it when I have my period tomorrow, so that you can taste it and make some suggestions to make my craft more famous. "

This kind of thing will often happen in your life, and others will be ashamed of hurting you unintentionally. At this time, you might as well be tolerant with appropriate words.

Xiao Yuan once greeted a shop assistant with short hair and said he was gay. When she turned around, Xiao Yuan found that she was obviously a little girl with black eyebrows and lips. Seeing his embarrassing appearance, the salesman joked, "It seems that I have to wear a skirt to work, otherwise I'm afraid even my boyfriend won't recognize me from behind." A little joke showed her understanding and humor, and also made Xiao Yuan's embarrassment disappear.

When others encounter interpersonal problems, if you can help or explain to others, you should try your best to help them out of their predicament. Don't watch the excitement and smile.

Teacher Yang quarreled with her lover the other day and just made up in the morning. I don't know where I heard that my daughter was wronged, so my mother-in-law went to school early in the morning to find her son-in-law to judge. Seeing this scene, an acquaintance quickly said, "Aunt, why didn't you see your daughter when you came?" She said she would go to the mall to buy a suit for Miss Yang and some meat for your old man! "Other teachers also echoed. When the old lady heard that her daughter and son-in-law had made up, she was embarrassed to make trouble again and left happily. Afterwards, Teacher Yang really invited her mother-in-law to dinner.

Awkward things always come out of the blue. No matter whether you and your client are strangers or close friends, when he suddenly falls into an awkward position, you should lend him a helping hand as much as possible to help him out of the predicament.

It is extremely impolite to laugh when others make a fool of themselves, and it can also be said to be an insult to others. Although you don't have any malicious sarcasm when you laugh, others will think it is a mockery and feel insulted. It is common to accidentally fall down on the road, say the wrong thing in public, or suddenly pull off the button of your clothes. You should try to be normal and don't chuckle.

When others are embarrassed, if it is really inconvenient for you to interrupt to help them out, then the best way is to turn a blind eye and leave temporarily so that others can deal with these accidents without worries. It is immoral to spread other people's anecdotes around as stories and jokes. China people pay special attention to face, and the less embarrassing things, the better. If you don't pay attention in this respect, it is likely to attract others' disgust. Don't spread other people's anecdotes at will, regardless of whether there are ridicule factors. This is due respect for others.