Grandpa's advice: No matter how honest a person is, don't "reason" with these three people, others will think you are stupid.

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In fact, it is hard to see honest people in this society now, because people in this era have become self-interested. The so-called exquisite egoist is actually a true portrayal of most people in this era, and it is very important for us to be an honest person at any time.

After all, what people pursue in this world is peace of mind, and the heart of an honest man is definitely the safest, so an honest man should actually strive to be. In fact, everyone has something to stick to, but honest people are powerless to change it.

Therefore, an honest man actually heard such comments in this society. Many people don't know whether to praise them or scold them. You know, for honest people in this era, in fact, many people want to bully them. Because it is no longer the saying that honest people are easy to bully.

So for an honest man, how to be a man is a problem that needs to be studied, but it is actually easy to solve. After all, honest people are notoriously reasonable, but sometimes when they meet some unreasonable people, they can only be unreasonable.

Come with me today and see who is honest and who shouldn't be reasonable.

First, unreasonable people

As the saying goes, it is foolish to reason with an unreasonable person, just as a scholar meets a soldier, it is hard to say that he is unreasonable. Therefore, in fact, honest people don't need to reason with such people at all, because such people are actually unreasonable people in our lives, and it is not feasible to reason with such people, because in their eyes, they will always be reasonable. So you don't need to be reasonable to such unreasonable people, just be as unreasonable as them.

What's more, for unreasonable people, honest people are also their favorite bullies, so honest people can only resist if they want not to be bullied. If you blindly reason with them but it doesn't make sense, then the result is naturally that you are unlucky and laughed at and looked down upon by others.

Because everyone else knows that it is wrong to reason with unreasonable people, and you have to do so, then it is naturally stupid to outsiders.

Second, people who deliberately bully you.

Reasoning with such people who deliberately bully you is actually more unreasonable than unreasonable people, because they deliberately bully you, deliberately, and unreasonable people are like that to everyone. In fact, people who deliberately bully you should resist. You know, when you are deliberately bullied, you may be able to make yourself uncomfortable for a while, but the consequence may be that more and more people will bully you.

Therefore, if you meet such a person who deliberately bullies you, naturally you can't reason with them, because it is invalid, but you will be laughed at by others and call you stupid, which is true. Reasoning with a person who deliberately gives you a hard time is tantamount to talking nonsense. Just as it is impossible to wake a person who pretends to sleep, it is also the same to reason with a person who deliberately bullies you.

Third, our parents.

In fact, an honest person should also distinguish the difference between parents and others. In fact, no matter what our parents say or do, we shouldn't reason with them, even if we are really on the right side, because as people who raise us, we shouldn't repay them in such a low-level way.

Just like when we were young, they would obey us no matter what we did. When you grow up, you should listen to them more. If we insist on being reasonable, we will actually fall behind. After all, as people between them and us, we need to deal with such communication problems in our time. Therefore, even if our parents are unreasonable, we should listen. It's just a matter of doing it or not. If you must be reasonable, you will be laughed at by outsiders.