There is a kind of "evil mother-in-law" who is regarded as a "good mother-in-law" by others. Do you have one like this around you?

Tell a cold joke at the beginning: Do you know who is the best diving partner in our country?

Mother-in-law and wife

Because, for many years, they always fell into the water together.

At first glance, it was a little funny, but after laughing, it was a little sad.

Gong, a cutting-edge writer, wrote in Father's Black Fish: "Daughter-in-law and mother-in-law are each other's natural enemies. I wonder how the creator designed it. A generation of mother-in-law and a generation of daughter-in-law, children and grandchildren are infinite. "

As for the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, only when a good daughter-in-law meets a good mother-in-law, both sides hold kind and positive ideas, consider problems from the other side's standpoint, and strive to make the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law develop in a good direction, can there be good results.

However, whenever one of them holds malicious speculations and thoughts, there is no way for the relationship between the two people to be harmonious, let alone be as close as mother and daughter.

Today, Bian Xiao wants to tell a story about her "evil mother-in-law". This kind of "evil mother-in-law" is not the standard "evil mother-in-law" in the eyes of the public, or it is arrogant and unreasonable, or the feudal concept is deeply rooted, or it is to break up the young couple.

On the contrary, this "evil mother-in-law" is what others call "good mother-in-law" and is recognized as "good mother-in-law". Their daughter-in-law must be very lucky. However, what kind of mother-in-law is behind closed doors, only they know.

There is a distant relative in my hometown, Aunt Zhao. She has two children. The eldest son is married and has children, and the youngest daughter is still in primary school. The whole family lives under the same roof. The seemingly bustling family has a long history.

Aunt Zhao has a hobby. She likes to go out and chat with her neighbors and relatives. When chatting, you must belittle your daughter-in-law, Lili, saying that she sleeps late, gets up late, gains weight, doesn't make money, spends water and electricity on washing clothes, and finds fault with her cooking.

Then pretend to be kind, "it doesn't matter, she is tired, let her rest more", "I'll buy her whatever she wants to eat" and "I can't make her too tired, so I'll quit my job and take care of the children". Then there was an exclamation, "You are such a good mother-in-law" and "That's what finding a mother-in-law is like"!

In fact, children are too young to make noise at night. Lily doesn't rest well at night, so she sleeps more during the day. As soon as Lily got pregnant, Aunt Zhao forced Lily to resign, and she resigned herself. On the surface, she took care of her daughter-in-law, but she didn't cook for her once, washed her clothes once and went out to play mahjong all day.

When Lili first got married, although she was a little timid about the relationship between her mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law, she still wanted to be nice to her mother-in-law, because after all, she was her husband's mother, and she loved her and had to honor her.

At the wedding, Aunt Zhao still held Lili and said in front of the villagers and neighbors that Lili must be treated as her own daughter. But just entering the door, Aunt Zhao asked Lili to cook for a large family, and three meals a day were not heavy.

Lily's taste is very weak, so she put less salt in it. Aunt Zhao lost her temper and said that Lili deliberately did not put salt, which meant sympathy for their family. Lily tried to cater to her taste. She always has other excuses to criticize.

Three months later, Aunt Zhao was still very picky, and Lili couldn't help losing her temper. They seem to be two families. Aunt Zhao cooks for them first every day, and Lily cooks for herself. She also gets up to cook for herself when she is confined, and the baby is also a baby when she is older.

When Lili's husband wanted to help Lili, Aunt Zhao blamed her, saying that Lili was too delicate and the baby was not born like this. It happened that the neighbors immediately changed their minds when they came, saying that they were distressed by their daughter-in-law and asked their sons to do more.

Aunt Zhao didn't take care of Lily for a day when the child was young. When the children are old enough to walk, they slowly start calling people. Aunt Zhao will run around the street with her children from time to time, claiming credit in front of her neighbors, saying that she has suffered a lot in order to bring her children to be healthy and healthy, and now she often has backache and leg pain, but it is worthwhile to watch her children get fat in vain.

Everyone praised her as a good mother-in-law and good to her daughter-in-law. She smiled and accepted one compliment after another. However, when she took the child out and ran into blood, or took the child to a sick neighbor's house and was infected, she said that Lili was careless with the child and completely pushed the responsibility out.

Lily also bought a lot of clothes for Aunt Zhao. Aunt Zhao said, "Isn't it my son's money?" Lili took Aunt Zhao to see a doctor when she was not feeling well. Aunt Zhao said that she called herself sick. No matter how Lili pays, Aunt Zhao doesn't care about her kindness, nor does she talk about her relatives and neighbors.

Therefore, the whole street knows that Aunt Zhao is a good mother-in-law and Lili is a daughter-in-law who is not sensible. Fortunately, Aunt Zhao's son was sober and did not let his daughter-in-law fall into a "helpless situation". He also knew what his mother had done, but he was helpless. It's not good to fight in front of outsiders. He can only try to save money and try to move out as soon as possible.

However, I just want to ask, Aunt Zhao, what can you do if you show it to others? Have you thought about the future? What's the difference between you and a wolf in sheep's clothing?

People don't know how you treat your wife. Don't your own family know? All the good things are on yourself, and all the bad things are thrown to the daughter-in-law. What benefits can you get if others speak ill of your daughter-in-law?

As the saying goes, "thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi." The tables have turned, and you will be old one day. You only have one son. You are ill in bed, and he can't do it alone. His daughter is still young. Don't you have to rely on her?

But you treat your daughter-in-law like this now, how can you make your daughter-in-law remember your kindness? How can I be filial to you, take care of you and die for your old age when you need help?

Not only is the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law at odds, but the whole family is divided and malodorous. The son doesn't like himself, and the family can see it. Living under the same roof is no longer a heart. What's the use of only superficial scenery?

There are many skills between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which are also written in Twilight, but in the final analysis, it is necessary for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to be really kind to each other from the heart and treat each other as their own relatives, so as to be more harmonious, instead of doing superficial work, face to face and behind.

Be a mother-in-law, take care of your heart. You came as your daughter-in-law, so you should understand her feelings better.