"How can a 30-year-old man be so simple?"

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"How can a 30-year-old man be so simple?"

His wife told him that her friends were laughing that day.

The thing is, one day everyone smiled and prepared to visit a friend, because this friend usually gave a lot of help in life and wanted to express his gratitude by the way. Of course, it's not good to go empty-handed, so he bought something in the mall.

Everyone smiled and drove to a friend's house, and put the shopping in the living room of the friend's house when they entered the door. My friend was very polite. He said why he was a guest, and asked everyone to sit down with a smile while making tea and cutting fruit for him. He is very enthusiastic. Du Xiaole and this friend are old friends and have always had a good relationship.

When everyone left laughing, his friend insisted that he take the things back. They quarreled for a long time, but they couldn't beat their friends. Everyone laughed and had to take everything home.

When he got home, his wife asked him why he didn't give his friend something. Everyone laughed and said that his friend was stubborn and said no, let me take it back.

"You silly, the somebody else say don't really don't ah, I found you such a big man, how so simple? When people are polite to you, you should take it seriously. " The wife laughed at everyone and complained that he was not sensible and would not be so sophisticated.

Everyone laughed and laughed, but I was thinking, why should people be so thoughtful? Shouldn't friends be open-minded? Maybe my friend really doesn't want to accept your gift, and my old friend won't blame me for it.

Once, a colleague made a joke, but everyone didn't take it seriously. They all took it seriously with a smile and did what his colleague said. Then everyone laughed at him and said you were so simple.

Everyone is laughing, everyone is the capital of the capital, not all. As the name implies, he is a simple and easy-going person.

In fact, when some people say that you are simple, it is just a euphemism. You are so stupid.

But it doesn't matter whether a person is stupid or not, just be happy.

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Say you are simple, some people often use similar sentences, you are so naive.

When Ren Xiaoxiao first entered the company, he was considered a novice, simple and sometimes naive. It's not that she's tactless. For someone like her who just graduated and entered the society, she is an inexperienced novice in the workplace.

Speaking of work, I'm a novice. Speaking of people, I'm Xiaohua Mall. I am too young to talk, and no one will listen to you.

On one occasion, at the regular work meeting, the leader asked everyone to make supplementary speeches and talk about their own suggestions. Although Ren Xiaoxiao is a girl, she has great courage. She thinks that she should take the initiative to shine when she comes to work in the company, and speaking at the meeting is also a positive performance.

Unexpectedly, the old employees listened to her words, whispering and laughing their heads off. The questions and suggestions she put forward can't be said not to be problems, but everyone knows them well. They think it is useless to bring it up, and there is no way to solve it. Even the leader felt embarrassed and didn't know how to answer her.

Then, some people say that Ren Xiaoxiao is new here after all and doesn't know the company's situation. His idea is too simple and naive.

It is under the preaching and irony of these people that many people slowly joined their ranks and began to pretend to be lofty.

There are indeed many people who are thoughtful, have good acting skills and know how to cooperate. It's really hard to stick to yourself now and not go with the flow.

Lu Xinning said in a speech in Peking University:

Don't be afraid that smooth people say you are not mature enough, and don't care that smart people say you are not wise enough. Don't accept the life recommended to you by others as it is, choose to stick to it and choose your own ideal, because in this era, saying that you are naive is the greatest compliment to your inner conscience.

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Men like simple women, while women despise naive men.

My friend Xiao Jia recently broke up with her boyfriend and asked her why. She's not very nice to you. Guess what Xiao Jia told me?

"He is very good, but sometimes he is too naive. I don't want to be with a child who doesn't grow up every day. "

It turns out that Jony J doesn't like her boyfriend's immaturity, and she has to adjust her mood to coax her boyfriend when she encounters unhappy little things. Her boyfriend was still unhappy and angry for two or three days, just like a child. Xiao Jia doesn't understand her boyfriend's thoughts, and she no longer wants to understand them.

In fact, it can't be said that boyfriends are naive, only that they are caused by personality. Personality problems can't be said that people are naive, and naive people are not angry. In love, I am not afraid of your innocence, your simplicity, but your scheming.

Some people define simplicity and innocence like this:

Simple is that you are easy to believe what others say.

Childishness means that everything you say is taken as a joke by others.

Simplicity, you think everything is beautiful, you don't seriously look at the essence of things, and superficial phenomena make you believe it. This kind of person usually has a complete brain and sees the world beautifully.

There are two kinds of childishness: childish behavior and naive thinking. Everything you may do is childish, and your thinking is simple without considering the consequences of things.

Therefore, the so-called simplicity does not mean the so-called naivety. Some people say that you are simple because you are too kind and have too little experience. If you have worked in the society for a period of time, you may have learned the way of the world, but you may not be pure at that time.

A teacher wrote this sentence on a student's message: I hope to cross Qian Fan and come back as a teenager. When you come back from campus, I hope you are still the simple you.

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You say that people should always keep a childlike innocence, but you always say that others are naive.

Why do children have a pure childlike innocence and adults are always scheming?

"All adults used to be children, but few people can remember this."

Yin Jianli said in the preface of her translation of The Little Prince:

Changing from a child to an adult is extremely simple and only takes time; It is extremely difficult to return from an adult to a child, which requires wisdom and courage-returning is not retrogression, but climbing to the extreme of life-the troubles of life are disappearing and the joy of life is showing. Childlike heart is closest to divinity, and finding childlike heart means finding God, which is exactly what the author said: "It is lucky to have a childlike heart."

Don't be afraid of others calling you naive. Your happiness is not others'.

Simplicity and innocence are sometimes a kind of simplicity. Only simplicity can lead to a natural and unrestrained life.

It is said that the world is very complicated, and I think it is the complexity of people's hearts. If you think simply, some people will call you naive. Stick to your own ideas, some people will say that you are simple, like a child, so that you will not be tired when you are alive.

When most people are the same, you may not look so gregarious. What does it matter whether it is simple or naive? We simply do things, simply keep our thoughts and like them.

You are simple, and the world is simple.

Zhuangzi said in "Happy Travel": Man has no self-nature, God and man are useless, and saints are nameless.

I said, simple people don't care.

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