How to judge the wrong person?

But the truth is far from easy. Loving the wrong person is a very painful thing, because you may not have thought that you have to pay for loving someone before. The price is that after you leave him, it will take a long time to slowly get rid of sadness, loss, anger and discomfort. There is no shortcut.

Sometimes there is no right or wrong in love, and there may be no absolutely right person or wrong person, but at least, I think good love should be in this relationship, and everyone is growing and happy.

If the person you love has the following behavior or performance, then I advise you to break up as soon as possible and stop loss in time.

You are not allowed to contact TA's circle of friends, and you rarely meet TA's friends.

Step by step, day by day, regardless of your future, I like to brainwash you: the result (marriage) is not important, what matters is the process of love, in fact, he just doesn't want to be responsible.

Playing tug-of-war with you usually makes you clingy, but when you deliberately keep your distance, you get closer because you don't love enough. When you finally decide to act as before, the other party says you are too clingy, and so on.

There is no trace in the circle of friends, indicating that he is not single; When you meet an acquaintance, you can immediately cut your hands and have a relationship.

Better for other members of the opposite sex than for you.

There is no respect for you in your words, and you always make some hurtful jokes.

See her Weibo every day, see her space, see her circle of friends, and ask her for advice at any time. Say to you, "She and I are just friends."

When you have emotional problems, you will start to find fault with you, completely suppress your self-confidence and drain your happiness.

Any topic can be related to money.

In your feelings, you have no sense of relaxation and security. You always hurt and torture each other in the name of love and never stop.

You become more indifferent, narrower, meaner, more intolerant and less warm.

When that person stands in front of you, he suddenly finds this shortcoming and that shortcoming.

You imagined 10 thousand endings with him, and none of them were happy endings.

Treat your feelings for TA as tears for TA, as a joke, as a show-off capital.

"When you meet someone you can spend your life with, you will expect the rest of your life to begin soon." You don't feel this way.

He makes you cry more than laugh.

Reluctant to break up, unwilling to end like this, but helpless.

He bought you a pair of nice and comfortable shoes, and everyone praised him. And these shoes, after you put them on, you feel ok. But when you stand up, every step you take begins to hurt. You tell him that your shoes hurt your feet. He just told you that it doesn't matter, just wear it for a long time, and then asked you to wear those shoes every time you went out with him. Finally, one day, you find that your toes are deformed, and then you know what it's like to love the wrong person. That's it.

Seeing other people's happiness, you will be envious and cry.

In order to see him early and have an extra dinner with him, he made himself so hungry that his stomach ached, but he disliked your pain that he couldn't walk and took you to eat Chongqing hot pot.

I bought her a dress: How did you buy it? I don't like this color, this style is ugly;

Chatting with her: It's all your fault, which made me miss my stop (he was taking a bus). Come, let's complain;

Take you to her friend: don't come out with me in the future, and lose my face.

Every day when you firmly hold him is no longer the life you will live, but actually get along with him in every little detail, forcing yourself to change the bottom line.

When he wants a promise, he either quietly doesn't answer or changes the subject.

Do things carefully, for fear that it will make him unhappy, and inexplicably feel humble, insecure and be swayed by considerations of gain and loss.

You have doubted countless times whether this relationship should continue.

Disappointment exceeds expectation, and expectation becomes disappointment.