The child is fourteen years old. Two days ago, he quarreled with his parents and made them dizzy. What should such a child do?

Conversely, the rebellion of adolescent children often causes parents' anxiety and anxiety, and always extends the direct performance of children to the future adulthood indefinitely. When parents' anxiety spreads, it will create an uneasy atmosphere at home-tension. As soon as parents see their children coming home from school, they are worried that their children will not listen to discipline. As soon as a child comes home, he or she doesn't want to see his or her parents scold him or her. When two kinds of tensions are intertwined, neither side can relax.

Educational methods of adolescent children in rebellious period 1. In the face of children's sudden rebellion, parents should first calm down, observe their daily lives and find out the reasons for their changes. Don't face the child's rebellion with a tough attitude. At this time, the child is like a tight rubber band. The harder you push, the more resilient they are. Therefore, parents should first establish a correct attitude and not be violent towards their children's behavior, which is the most undesirable.

2. Learn more about children's recent concerns and preferences, and sometimes discuss these new things with them. Sometimes children don't want to communicate with their parents because they feel there is a generation gap with their parents. They feel that the age gap between their parents and themselves is too big, and there is also a big gap between what they like. When they sit together and can't talk, they lose the desire to communicate.

3. If parents want to be closer to their children and understand their inner world, they must first understand what their children like, so that they can talk to their children, and they can also reveal what they like to their children and deepen their understanding. You can also play with your children on weekends and really integrate into their world.

4. Compare other people's children with your own children less. Every child has his own advantages and disadvantages. Don't let parents ignore the advantages of their own children because of some advantages of other children. Since I was a child, I was tired of my parents taking the children next door as benchmarks to achieve their goals, which would make children feel that their parents don't love them and just want them to be their own braggadocio, which would lead to rebellion and treason. Contradictions with parents.

The correct way is to give children appropriate comfort and encouragement when they are lost compared with others in some aspects, so that children can see their other advantages. Let children face their shortcomings confidently and try to overcome them so as to make progress next time.