How to become a eloquent person without losing humor?

It is difficult to be both eloquent and humorous, so it requires a long period of accumulation. Don't expect to become such a person overnight.

First of all, read more books to enrich your knowledge reserve, so that what you say will not be superficial. For example, when talking about a topic, people with knowledge reserves will make very rational analysis and judgments based on what they have seen before, instead of making very preliminary judgments based only on their own feelings, which will make people confused. Being able to detect loopholes can give people a superficial feeling.

Then you must learn to share and be willing to talk about your experiences with everyone. You will not feel that you have suffered a loss by sharing them with others. Usually your own experiences have been experienced by yourself, so you must be sure to share them. Being able to speak it fluently will also bring a sense of intimacy to others.

The next step is to practice your face, which is definitely not possible if you are thin-skinned. Learn to joke and be able to accept that others want to joke about you and not take it too seriously. When communicating with others, whether it is an embarrassing incident or your own glorious deeds, you can communicate with others happily. There is no need to hide your shortcomings all the time for fear of giving a bad impression to others. It is also a good way to expose your shortcomings to others and use them as a source of laughter, but the premise is that you can accept that others see your shortcomings.

The last and most important point is to be frank, not to sensationalize, or deliberately exaggerate to win others’ laughter. That is to say, you must be measured when talking and be good at observing. Different people’s acceptance of joking. It’s different, so you have to be careful.

If you do the above points, you can become a lovable person even if you don't really become a person who is eloquent and humorous.