Can marriage be a child’s play?

Of course not, marriage means responsibility. Marriage is not a game, nor is it just a certificate. It is a commitment to your lover and your children, and a responsibility to your relatives and children. Marriage is the process of love developing to a certain stage of maturity. It is the season of love harvest. Love without marriage is just a vague picture, while marriage is the real beauty in the picture. Only with marriage can we have a beautiful and fulfilling life, and only then can we have the happiness of a family with children around our knees. If love is just a kind of single love without family elements, it will be difficult to understand the depth of love in the hearts of two people, and it will be difficult to understand the meaning of love, because to a large extent, two people in love are It is a kind of unreal beauty. When two people face each other, they show their own advantages and are hypocritical. It is difficult to truly understand each other. Only through marriage and experiencing love in life can we experience love. real meaning.

Some people say that marriage is the tomb of love. Just imagine if marriage is the tomb, why so many people walk into the marriage hall. If marriage is the tomb of love, how can we explain so many happy marriages? ? Of course, unhappy marriages cannot be ruled out. If love only stays on the surface and has no actual life, then love will always be an empty fantasy. When two people in love have been together for a long time, love will become boring without the rich heritage of life, the continuation and enrichment of new life, and the surprise of new life. Life cannot be separated from hope. Without the continuation of life, how about the beginning of hope? If everyone is just a long-distance love race, when will love mature? In the end, where will love end up?

Some people may think that marriage kills love, but this is just a one-sided understanding of some people. Ordinary and dull marriage only dilutes the romance of love to some extent instead of burying and killing it. It just uses the form of marriage to further express the romance of love. In fact, there is no lack of romance in marriage, a gentle hug, a shallow eyebrow kiss, a little flower in the wilderness, a humorous and fun text message, a small gift that your lover likes, a loving and considerate word, a kind of anxiety. Worries and concerns are all manifestations of romantic love in marriage.

Marriage only makes love change from superficial passion to plainness. Love with marriage is perfect. With love as the foundation, marriage is beautiful. Marriage is actually a product of mature love. In a certain sense, it makes love deeper and more connotative, and gives love a sacred responsibility to complete the continuation of life and enable everything in the future to continue to flourish. , giving life a hope.

Marriage will allow two people who love each other to gradually reveal their true sides and deepen their understanding of each other. They will not just keep an empty promise to deal with each other's illusory life. Love will only make people Slowly becoming hypocritical. Two people in love often disguise themselves in order to show their good side. Such disguise will make the heart feel tired, making it just like a lonely boat without support in the stormy sea, drifting without a stable place and unable to find a stable place. To the anchorage. But marriage gives the heart a solid support.

Marriage allows love to crystallize, to have a destination and to rely on, and it also allows love to be further sublimated. Marriage is inevitable when love develops to a certain extent. Love without marriage is irresponsible, and love without marriage is imperfect. Marriage seems to be a traditional love model, but in fact it is the continuation and sustenance of love. Marriage gives love a substantive content, making love have a spiritual thing in marriage, continuing the life of one generation after another.

Love without marriage is just an empty emotion. Although there is often romance before flowers and under the moon, love without life will never have the fruits of love. Even if two people who love each other are always chatting together, one day they will feel the monotony and boringness of life. The love between two people is always just a bright romance, but the care of an apple and the warmth of a cup of tea in marriage are a feeling worth savoring more than romance. Only when love enters the palace of marriage can real life begin.

And when love leads to marriage and the crystallization of mutual love, you will feel the life of real love. Although this kind of life will gradually become dull, dullness is true. In the dullness, you can feel the growth of another life and feel The freshness that life brings to us is when we feel the most real life. This truth and beauty will give you hope in life and make you feel happy and gratified in life. Therefore, a happy marriage is not only the continuation of love, but also the destination of love. It is also the sublimation of love. It is the fruitful harvest of mature love.

Under the sunset, an old woman supports each other. This is the interdependence after marriage gives love a responsibility. A pair of small hands holding two pairs of big hands in the morning light is that marriage gives love a new life, allowing love to grow healthier and stronger. Under the sunset and in the morning light, this is the most beautiful and warm picture in our lives. It makes us feel more deeply moved when we appreciate its beauty. Therefore, the interpretation of love cannot be separated from marriage. Marriage is not only the tomb of love, but also the sublimation of love.