A year after we broke up, my ex sent me an invitation. Should I go to his wedding?

Life is not only now, but also the wedding invitation of my predecessor. If I receive an invitation from my ex, I won't attend. We should break up cleanly. What's more, the best way to face your ex is not when you die, but when the other person dies.

Have you seen the movie Prequel Raiders by Han Geng and Claudia?

At the beginning of the movie, the hero and heroine came to attend the pre-wedding. This couple, composed of other people's ex-husbands, have a big heart. They specially prepared a table for each other's ex-boyfriend and ex-girlfriend. The point is that they are still full.

The newlyweds on the stage happily told each other your wedding declaration, then exchanged rings and kissed each other. The predecessors in the audience are either sad or angry or calm.

At that time, I was thinking, why didn't an ex rush to the stage to rob her relatives? Won't the couple have any illusions about inviting their ex to their wedding?

I once heard a story: at my ex's wedding, a girl went up to give a speech to the couple despite the obstruction of relatives and friends. She stood between the couple and loudly told everyone present her love for him. Then she thanked him for arranging the wedding scene exactly as she had imagined for him. Finally, she said "I wish you happiness" to him, dropped the microphone and turned away smartly.

At that time, I told this story to my boyfriend (who later broke up), and my predecessor said to me: Why is my heart so small? I can't let others live well after separation. What's the point of going to someone else's wedding? But if I am not the one who will marry you in the future, I will also attend your wedding. I want to see you in a wedding dress, even if it's not for me.

It's disgusting, isn't it?

Looking back now, I really think those words are unrealistic and too idealistic.

Because we have been together for five years and can't go on, we chose to break up peacefully. I told him: If you get married in the future, don't tell me, let alone invite me. I'm afraid I can't help it.

Actually, I haven't figured it out yet. Does this mean that I can't help robbing my relatives, or I can't help stabbing him twice?

He asked me: What if you get married before me?

This is impossible, because he is five years older than me, so I have to answer: then don't inform anyone, you can't hurt your wallet and your heart at the same time.

Even after a long time, when the past scenes are repeated, my heart will still be touched a little. After all, when you love, you really love, and when you are apart, it really hurts.

I have always believed that every relationship is the original intention of being together for life, but various factors in the middle, or different views, or forced by life, or family opposition ... in the end, I can only choose to part ways.

When he got married, he chose to send you an invitation, perhaps because he still has your position in his heart; Maybe he just wants to get back at you and watch your jokes; Or maybe he has long been indifferent to your past.

As for you, you should give yourself enough reasons to participate or not.

I will never leave, not to say that I can't let go, I can't bear it, or I hate it, but I know very well that there is no need to bother each other again. Everything is a foregone conclusion, and each of us is fine, which is also a respect for each other.