What kind of experience is it to be "poured cold water"?

Throwing cold water is the feeling of unhappiness when you are happy.

I have a sister who is especially willing to throw cold water on me. When I am excited to share everything with him, she will throw a pot of cold water on me and then ask me to play aside. I'll mess around for a while and just stand in the wind.

When I was in junior high school, I often took the second place in the grade, but I couldn't get the first place. Once I suddenly got the first place in the exam, I excitedly went to show off to my sister that I finally got the first place in the exam. Don't always say second next time.

She said how I won the first prize this time. I said that the classmate who won the first prize had left and went to another school, so I won the first prize.

She gave me a look: "As the joke said, my grades have been very stable, and I am the second from the bottom in my class. As a result, one day, the last fool in my class had diarrhea, and I didn't come to the exam, so I took the last one. "

"You left, and you won the first prize for nothing."

"How can I pick it up for nothing? My grades are also very good. You can't praise me and keep hitting me. " I'm still very dissatisfied.

"I'm giving you a wake-up call and telling you not to be proud of being the first in an exam. You have to thank me. "

"Yes, I thank you." I ran to one side alone, unhappy. It's too hard to admit that you are excellent.

When I was in college, I passed CET-4 once. My sister said CET-4 was great and I could pass CET-6 once. As a result, I failed CET-6 four times, and my sister said that your English level is not good either. You have learned English for nothing for so many years.

Later, I passed the naked English test for the fifth time. My sister will say that you are a blind cat and met a dead mouse. It's all luck. Everyone has passed IELTS and TOEFL, and our colleagues' children have passed CET-8. I'm preparing for IELTS now. Don't tell my sister before the exam. After that, she had to hit me again.

Because I was always close to success before, my sister told me that you were still weak, and it was almost a critical moment. I felt terrible at that time, and my sister didn't comfort me. She kept throwing cold water on me and breaking my heart.

But it seems that my sister often throws cold water on me, and now I have immune function myself. Even if she says anything, I have already stopped talking with a smile. I also began to realize that my sister seems to be really afraid of my pride and has been hitting me. My sister is still taking care of me in other convenient places, so I reluctantly accept such a mean sister.

How can I just accept it? I still appreciate my sister's help all the time. I'm glad to have such a sister.