High emotional intelligence speaking skills

High EQ speech skills, 55 tips for girls to improve their EQ

1. Change "You are so fat" to "You are so cute"

2. Change "Wocao" to "Thousands of words are in my heart"

3. Change "Whatever" to "Listen to you"

4. Change "Yeah Oh" to "Okay, I know"

5. Change "What else do you want from me" to "What else can I improve?"

6. Change "wrong" to "right", affirm others first, and then add your own opinions

7. Change "Oh" to "You are so funny"

8. Change " Are you there?" changed to "I have XX things to trouble you"

9. Change "Let's do it another day" and "next time" to "I can do it in X days"

10. Change "Haha" to "You are so funny"

11. Change "Did you understand?" to "Is there anything I didn't understand clearly?"

12. Change "I don't know" to "I can learn" (classic interview phrase)

13. Change "I don't know" to "I can learn more"

14. Change "I don't know how to drink" to "I'm better at pouring wine"

15. When others praise you for your good looks, you can say "All good-looking people say so"

16 .Change "You are awesome" to "A master is actually by my side"

17.Change "I'm so annoyed" to "I need to calm down"

18. Change "You are too bad" to "You actually have a lot of room for improvement"

19. Change "No time" to "I have something urgent"

20. Change "Buy, buy, buy" to "You can consider buying it"

21. Change "I haven't seen it" to "I haven't seen it, but it sounds great"

22. Change "You are so stupid" to "You have great ideas"

23. Change "I know" to "Thank you for reminding me"

24. Change "You are so ugly" "Change "You're pretty good"

25. Change "Thank you" to "Thank you/XX"

26. Add "Okay" when asking for help , "Is it okay?", "Is it convenient for you?"

27. When chatting with people, say less "I" and more "you'"

28. Use more "we", "We" can quickly bring us closer

29. When asking for cooperation, say less "what I want" and more "what can you give the other party"

30. When talking about food, remember what the other person likes to eat and what they don’t like to eat, it’s a bonus

31. When sharing honors, don’t forget to mention the people who helped the matter

32. When taking responsibility, you must first examine yourself

33. You can laugh at your friends, but never laugh at the things they like

34. For the first time When meeting, try to remember other people’s names, it’s a bonus

35. True temperament means telling the truth, not saying unpleasant things

36. Don’t criticize others when you see through them, leave everything to others Make some room

37. Don’t try to win in everything, otherwise you may win with reason but lose feelings

38. Use polite words just right

39 .When criticizing, you should pay attention to the occasion, time, and relationship, and speak it in a pleasant way

40. Make suggestions while criticizing

41. If you can’t help but want to show off, please bring Make some embarrassment to neutralize it

42. Don’t show that you are better than the other person

43. Don’t pretend to understand when you don’t understand

44. Don’t show off when you are in a bad mood Make decisions

45. Be lenient with your words and consider others’ self-esteem

46. Don’t be too sure of your own opinions

47. Hear bad things about yourself Don't be angry or sad at all times

48. Don't forget the great kindness of others because of small resentments

49. Stop wasting time wondering what others said

50 .Discipline yourself and don’t

Discipline others

51. Don’t gossip, don’t make irresponsible remarks to others behind their backs

52. Don’t complain, complaining is the most useless thing

53. Don’t talk nonsense, it’s easy to bore people

54. Don’t promise things that you can’t do in vain

55. Don’t talk nonsense, communication efficiency is too low

If you are good-looking, others will look at you more

If you have high emotional intelligence and self-cultivation, others will look at you highly