Is it normal that people in high-end residential areas are more indifferent and don't even associate with their next-door neighbors?

There used to be a saying that "distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors", which means that once something happens, neighbors will take care of each other when they are close, but relatives are too far away. Nowadays, "a distant relative is better than a close neighbor", and people living in cities have no concept of neighbors. This is a situation of old age and death. In fact, the real reason is that people don't have the concept of affection and affection in their minds, but they are filled with things I don't ask you, so there is no need to actively associate with you. Everyone has such a heart, so they have lived all their lives and don't know each other's surnames. City life didn't actually improve people's spiritual civilization, but people in cities live with masks, and people in cities know almost nothing except money. As for the neighbor's house, there are big things that have nothing to do with you. Even if someone dies nearby, look elsewhere. Moreover, there is a wave of people in urban life who are particularly sensitive to the disparity between the rich and the poor. If you are not rich, once you are known, no one will respect you even if you have money, even if you steal from others. Therefore, there is no requirement for people's personality in city life, and the thickness of money is very high, which leads many people to live in one building and never come and go. In many European countries, if a new resident comes, the host will cook food and send it door to door to the neighbor's house. This is a way of human contact and communication. Once in a while, we hold a dance to get together with our neighbors and friends to increase our feelings, and we new and original residents are studying how to seize the corridor to put things away, so many rural people are not used to city life and feel wronged. It is because in the countryside, they can go to the west to chat. Rural people are simple, have no colored eyes to see people, and are not very sensitive to the disparity between the rich and the poor, so everyone feels happy and has no strangeness to each other. Everyone who has big things and small feelings enthusiastically comes out to help, but after the countryside arrives in the city, there is no place to go, only good people can't leave the second door. Therefore, city life only provides you with a convenient consumption platform and increases your horizons. Let you truly understand what human feelings are like and feel what it means to hang high. When you look at people shuttling between high-rise concrete buildings, you will know that they are just a group of advanced animals without human nature.

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Normal, irrelevant people are equivalent to strangers, entering the door, let alone visiting. Only by saying that you often meet and say hello and become acquaintances more often can you communicate with each other.

Besides, mobile phones have changed us. I didn't have so many rich electronic products before, and I like to make friends in the community to pass the boring time or get more gossip. Now that I have my mobile phone in my hand, I can travel alone in my favorite spiritual world, which reduces the communication between people.

Neighborhood communication is normal now! Bottom line: since there are independent apartment buildings, once the door is closed, people will not stick together, but ghosts will never meet! Living next door for several years, no one knows, and no one knows when the house stinks! This is the state of communication between today and future neighbors!

People who can live in high-end residential areas are generally successful, at least with higher earning power than most people. People who can make money in this society either suffer big losses or are directly the second generation of officials and money. These two kinds of people generally see the society more thoroughly, that is, people who are more realistic and thorough, are generally indifferent, which is normal, because they are very clear about what they want, what they don't want, unnecessary interpersonal relationships, and there is no need to reinvent the wheel.

Because the trust between people is low now, everyone feels insecure.

In addition to the relocation of the village in the city to the resettlement community, it is very normal for most neighborhoods in any other community to "live or die"! Some people expect distant relatives to be inferior to close neighbors, but they don't realize that there are essential differences between rural areas and cities. Everyone is familiar with it in the countryside, because the neighborhood relationship in the countryside is a kind of relationship passed down from generation to generation, and it is a kind of worldly wisdom passed down from generation to generation. Children play together since childhood, and children still play together when they have children. This kind of neighbor can't be moved from generation to generation, and it is an endless neighborhood relationship. The so-called neighbors in the city are too mobile. The neighbors in the city are all passers-by, but now they lack the inheritance of their parents, because there is no stable relationship between the neighbors called by their parents, and there is no inheritance of memories. Unlike children of a few years old in rural areas who know who is the son of the village and who is the father, grandparents all know it. This is because their parents know everything about the village after several generations of inheritance. Children naturally inherit this memory through subtle words and deeds. In fact, this can be said to be history, and everyone living in the countryside can be said to know something about the relationship between the three generations in the village. This kind of understanding is like a unique gene, and urban neighbors can never have such conditions. Neighborhood relationship in the city, at most, is that two pairs of doors often meet, get to know each other, and finally establish a better neighborhood relationship. This neighborhood relationship could have been passed down, but who knows where the next generation will move? Therefore, it is normal for cities not to have good neighborhood relations, which is limited by realistic conditions.

Compared with the mobility of urban neighbors, rural neighbors are basically eternal. Even for future generations, most people are willing to do a good job in neighborhood relations, in order to feel so good forever! I always feel that good is only suitable for rural areas. Urban people are essentially rootless duckweeds and have no stable residence for generations. How can they hope to have a group of good neighbors forever?

People in the community are becoming more and more indifferent, which has always been the case. No one can explain clearly. This is so normal. Make friends far away and live a good life.

It is not surprising that people are cold and warm, the world is cold, and they live in high-rise buildings and do not communicate with each other. In the past, distant relatives were not as good as close neighbors, but now they have lived on the same floor for more than ten years. I don't know the names of my neighbors across the street, and I don't say hello when I meet them. There is a feeling that there is no communication when I am old. Every window is like a prison, and the security door blocks people's communication. After work, the security door is out of touch with the world.

There is a joke that is also true. An old man from the countryside came to visit his son in the city. His son's house is multi-storey and one staircase. The old man didn't contact his son by phone beforehand. He has been here before, but no one answered when he knocked on his son's door. Coincidentally, his phone was turned off and he waited for a long time. He knocked on the opposite door and asked his neighbor if he knew that his son's house was occupied. The neighbor opposite said he didn't know, so the old man felt unreasonable and quarreled with the neighbor opposite. Why don't you know if the neighbor across the street is at home? When the neighbors across the street saw that the explanation was unclear, they closed the door and ignored it, which made the old man very angry. He finally waited until his son and daughter-in-law came home at night and told his son what had happened angrily. The son and daughter-in-law told the old man not to get angry because they didn't know their neighbors across the street. The old man was very angry: why are you people in the city so impersonal? Why don't you know the neighbors who live opposite? This is simply intolerable in rural areas. In rural areas, with the support from all sides, the human touch of the city is too weak, and the elderly can't stand being alone for a day and then returning to the countryside!

I have lived with my neighbor for ten years. There are three families in one staircase, and the names of the other two families are really unknown, and neither are their telephones. It is rare to meet at ordinary times, and there is always no chance to say hello when meeting. The neighbors across the street feel very domineering, as if they owe them tens of thousands of RMB, far from the feeling of mutual love and assistance between rural neighbors. What a depression!

Perhaps rich people pay more attention to their privacy. After all, money is not necessarily an interest.

It is normal. Now is the age of science and technology, rich, but also need privacy and security. Living nearby cannot guarantee that everything is well-intentioned. If you know each other's life too well, privacy is easy to leak. If there are contradictions, problems are more likely to occur, so we don't talk. Everyone is safe. And more harmonious.