She lives like a joke.

Lu Yao said: "Tragedy often begins with comedy."

In the novel Life, he described the love between Gao Jialin and Liu Qiaozhen as follows. It was warm and touching at first, but it ended badly in the end. There are many tragedies in this novel, and what I regret most is their love tragedy.

When Gao Jialin's dream of entering a big city was shattered and he returned to the land he tried to escape at dusk, Qiao Zhen, who loved her deeply and whispered in his ear, was married to an illiterate farmer. Seeing this, I can't help sighing.

Later, I learned that even without the appearance of a third party, Huang Yaping, the love tragedy between Gao Jialin and Liu Qiaozhen had already been doomed. There are personal reasons for Gao Jialin and Liu Qiaozhen, and there are also reasons for the times.

What impressed me most in the whole novel was Qiaozhen's attitude towards love. She is sincerely infatuated with Gao Jialin, without any demands. In the pursuit of Gao Jialin, she showed the boldness and boldness that rural girls can't imagine. At the same time, she often has a sense of inferiority when facing her lover.

I am puzzled by her multiple attitudes towards love, but when I think about it carefully, there are reasons. Next, I will talk about Liu Qiaozhen's view of love and the reasons for these views from three aspects.

The old man Deshun said, "Qiaozhen is a piece of gold."

Indeed, Qiaozhen is a good girl. She is pure and kind, with a clear heart and a noble and selfless soul. Qiaozhen loved Gao Jialin sincerely and passionately from beginning to end, and her love was not mixed with any impurities.

"Ringo, I think you are closer than my parents." "Ringo, as long as you don't abandon me, let's go for a ride together. You stay at home and I work for us in the mountains! You won't suffer. "

"When we get married, you have a day off for seven days, and I'll let you spend Sunday like at school."

Qiao Zhen's words revealed enough love and infatuation for Gao Jialin. Liu Qiaozhen's love for Gao Jialin can be said to be a spirit of sacrifice. In her heart, as long as Gao Jialin she loves is happy, she is willing to give everything for him. She can't bear to see her Gao Jialin suffer a little. Knowing that Gao Jialin didn't want to be a farmer, she encouraged Gao Jialin to work in the city, although she knew it would make them farther and farther away. When Gao Jialin worked as a communications soldier in the county, she seldom went home. She didn't complain or change her infatuation. She also gave him money to help him take care of his parents.

Even though Gao Jialin abandoned her later, although she was in pain, she didn't hate Gao Jialin's infidelity or scold Gao Jialin. Instead, let Gao Jialin find a good partner and tell him to take care of himself outside.

When Gao Jialin's teacher position was replaced and he had no choice but to return to the countryside, it was Joe's true love and companionship that eased his depression and made him feel the breath of life during that time. Qiao Zhen's true feelings for Garin are all from the heart, without any affectation. This is a simple country girl's inner monologue to her beloved.

Qiaozhen's simple kindness and sincerity towards love touched me for a long time. Environment affects people's character. Liu Qiaozhen's character comes from her status as a farmer and from the land where she was born and raised.

Simplicity, sincerity and willingness to pay are the common personality characteristics of farmers. They are rooted in the land and live a self-sufficient life on it. If they want to get more gains on limited land, they can only work hard and sweat. They know that no pains, no gains.

For thousands of years, their production and life have closely revolved around their own acre of land. Their greatest concern is the harvest, and their greatest expectation is to be able to eat and wear warm clothes. There is no competition in their lives, so they are often kind and have a harmonious neighborhood.

Qiaozhen is such a farmer, so she knows how to repay. Who is good to her, she will be good to whom, what she wants, she will pay, leaving no room. Her kind and simple personality also makes her love for Gao Jialin crystal clear. All her true feelings are from the heart, so what she said to Gao Jialin is always so touching.

Huang Yaping, the city girl that Gao Jialin fell in love with, is more like an egoist. She also loves Gao Jialin and can discuss Byron's poems with Gao Jialin, but she has never sacrificed or paid anything for love. Later, Gao Jialin broke up with her, and she didn't stay.

The author Lu Yao was born in the countryside. He has always called himself "the son of peasant descent". Whenever his creation enters a trough, he will go back to his hometown in the country alone and examine himself there.

Lu Yao is definitely partial to the countryside, so he also prefers the rural girl Liu Qiaozhen in his works. Let her have the qualities of sincerity, kindness and diligence. These beautiful qualities are in sharp contrast with Huang Yaping's egoism.

The author must want to say that not everyone is as sincere and kind as Joe. Joe's true character can only be endowed with clean mountains and rivers and land in the countryside. Only in the countryside can people live the cleanest life. This growth is unparalleled in Huang Yaping.

Qiaozhen's pursuit of Gao Jialin is positive. Qiaozhen sent some sweet potatoes to Gao Jialin who went to work today. In order to make him notice himself, she brought him a big red date tomorrow. After handing over the house, I did not forget to tell Gao Jialin: "This is my family's private land." That's not enough. She added, "I planted it."

Qiaozhen's confession seems implicit, it does not contain a word "love", but when you think about it carefully, it is straightforward. Imagine that a girl gives something to a boy every three days. Who can't understand the deep feeling contained in it? Especially after adding the sentence "I planted it", I can see that Qiaozhen is afraid that Gao Jialin doesn't know her heart for him, and she is good to him. Obviously, she is very eager to let Gao Jialin notice that there is a girl named Liu Qiaozhen in his life.

If Qiaozhen's above performance may be slightly implicit, then what she said to Gao Jialin on the day of the fair is a bold confession.

"Ringo, as long as you don't dislike me, let's get along well."

Even now, this is a naked confession, which is shocking enough. Girls have a good face. No girl will easily say, "I want to spend the rest of my life with you." This shows how brave Qiaozhen is. At that moment, she left behind all her dignity, face and girl's reserve, and she tried her best to strive for the happiness she wanted. In the past, rural girls, this was unimaginable.

At first, Qiao Zhen's unrestrained love show puzzled me. I don't think this should be a way for a rural girl to pursue love. In my eyes, rural girls of that era were ashamed to confess, even if they did, they should be implicit. However, the way Qiao Zhen pursues love is another way.

In fact, Qiaozhen's way of expressing love is different from that of rural girls in the past, largely because of the influence of the times.

I have to mention the creative background of this novel here. Life was written in 1980s, when China was in the early stage of reform and development. Under the background of this era, people living in rural areas have also received the information of the new era.

Desire is produced by stimulation, which stimulates them to abandon their inherent ideas and sprout unprecedented ideas. Since then, new words such as "freedom", "ideal", "knowledge" and "value" have been lingering in their minds.

Qiaozhen has not received knowledge education, but she must get in touch with things in the new era. Gradually, she inevitably began to show the characteristics of women in the new period, longing for free love, worshiping knowledge and pursuing ideals.

Thought determines a person's behavior, and he does whatever he wants. Therefore, Qiaozhen gradually abandoned the old rural customs and showed an extraordinary love view of a rural girl.

So in Qiaozhen, we can see her boldness and boldness in pursuing love; Different from traditional girls, she does not obey the "parents' orders and matchmakers' words", but insists on pursuing her favorite Gao Jialin; She doesn't care what is good for her family, and she doesn't want to be utilitarian. Although she is the daughter of the "God of Wealth" in the village, she still has a crush on Gao Jialin, who is surrounded by her family, because she is "determined to choose a man with culture and rich spirit as her partner".

Although Qiaozhen has all the qualities that symbolize beauty, such as simplicity and kindness, passion for love and gentleness like water, she also has some wrong ideas about love, which eventually became an important driving force for her love to go to tragedy.

Qiaozhen has been worried that she has no culture, so that she always has an inferiority complex in front of Gao Jialin, a cultural person. Qiao Zhen's humble heart can be seen in many places in the novel.

"She misses him all the time and avoids him all the time. She is afraid that her walking posture will show something inappropriate in front of him and make her beloved laugh. "

"After you joined the work, although I feel sorry for you, I know I don't deserve you."

Zhang Ailing said, "Down into the dust, a flower blooms". Qiaozhen fell into the dust, but her love did not blossom and bear fruit, but was ruthlessly abandoned.

Inferiority is essentially a person's denial of self-worth.

Qiaozhen never realized her value. She envies a man with knowledge and culture, and Gao Jialin is literate, so she admires and worships him extremely. But she never thought of turning herself into a literate man, just pinned this ideal on Gao Jialin, thinking that the person she likes will be glorious if she has culture, and seems to regard herself as an accessory of Gao Jialin.

She saw that she and her sweetheart had nothing in common and the distance was getting bigger and bigger. She didn't make any effort to get close to Gao Jialin. The only thing I have done is to learn to brush my teeth every day like a city dweller. The only thing she can do is to constantly sacrifice herself for him, help Gao Jialin take care of her parents and save money to send her to Gao Jialin, but she doesn't know what kind of love Gao Jialin really wants.

Qiaozhen has only dependence, devotion and blind obedience to Gao Jialin. Obviously, she has no independent personality and has not realized her own value. This is her personal character defect, and it is also a common fault of women in China. The root of this common fault comes from China's traditional ideas.

For thousands of years, the idea of "men are superior to women" has deeply influenced people. How did this idea come about? In fact, in ancient matriarchal society, mothers were respected and worshipped. At that time, women were "men are superior to women". Later, due to the development of agriculture, men's physical strength was good and they could play a greater role in labor, so their status gradually became higher. In feudal society, it evolved into the idea that men are superior to women. The idea of "men are superior to women" weakens and even defines all the values of women's human rights, economy, fertility and so on, making women an accessory of men.

At that time, although it was in the new period of reform and opening up, people's new ideas sprouted in the new period, and the thoughts of rural woman Liu Qiaozhen also changed. She began to have fresh ideas and began to pursue free love boldly and enthusiastically. However, because she has been growing up in the closed loess plateau and has not received modern knowledge education, the influence on her in the new period is not thorough. Therefore, in the depths of her thoughts, traditional thoughts are still deeply rooted, including the concept of "men are superior to women".

Therefore, she envies Gao Jialin for being literate, but she doesn't want to be a literate person. She only regards Gao Jialin with culture as a yearning and spiritual supplement. Her ideal will only be limited to having a "harmonious family" and can't think of anything else. When I found the distance between myself and Gao Jialin, I naturally didn't think of enriching myself to make up for it, just saying, "I know I don't deserve you." .

When Gao Jialin gave up her beautiful dream, she had to give up on herself and married Ma Shuan, a matchmaker, although she didn't like him. These are all helpless things. Qiaozhen's deep-rooted misconceptions will inevitably lead her to make such a choice.

Written at the end: Qiaozhen's view of love stems from her rooted yellow land and the era in which she lives, but at the same time she can't get rid of the profound influence of traditional ideas. Her sincerity and kindness from the heart can give people a breath of life. Her boldness and boldness in pursuing love are admirable, and her inferiority in her bones is regrettable.

A good novel is so true that it will not only describe a person's good, nor will it only show a person's bad. On the contrary, it will show a complicated side of a person. Real people are always multifaceted and always make people respectable, lovely and pitiful.