How to communicate with divorced wives about the reasons for their divorce?

In fact, the reason why a woman wants to divorce is very simple. It's all men's reasons, because a married woman will attach great importance to her family. So what is the reason for her wife's divorce?

Why did the wife divorce?

1 always brings negative emotions to his wife.

We always leave politeness and good temper to outsiders, and vent the ugliest and worst side on the closest people. Many men think that home is a place to relax. They encounter bad worries at work, and when they are flushed with others outside, they will bring their emotions home intentionally or unintentionally. If the wife cares about a few words, she will vent her negative emotions on her. "Can you stop asking?" "Will you stop nagging?" My wife will miss you because she cares about you, but all this is repelled by your cold and irritable reaction.

2, a serious lack of care and love for his wife.

Are you and your wife in different states? Do you often go out early and come back late because of work? Can't talk to her every day? Many men mistakenly believe that as long as they work hard to make money and give their children and wives a good economic environment, that is the performance of loving her. But I forgot that a woman is a sensitive thinking, and she needs her husband's care and companionship. If you don't feel caring for a long time, it will be difficult for couples to be close and harmonious for a long time.

3. I don't know how to balance family relationships.

Have you ever stood by while your wife was in conflict with her in-laws? "She is my mother, so make way." "What do you care about with an old man?" Husband is the lubricant between wife and mother-in-law. If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not harmonious, the husband is the biggest mistake. When you face a problem, you can't find an effective way, but only ask your wife to be considerate and give in. Over time, your wife will naturally leave you. As a man, as her husband, not only can you not completely protect her and support her, but you also leave her alone to deal with complicated family relations and leave her alone. Because I haven't received your attention for a long time, my wife is particularly eager for this feeling of being cared for and taken care of. Many times, the wife cheated, not because she loved a third party, but because she was addicted to the feeling of being loved.

4, do not strive for progress, so that the wife can not see hope.

There are also some men who have stood still for a long time and even regressed. Their wives and children can't live a good life, and they don't have much ambition. In the long run, it will make your wife feel that she can't see your future and feel disheartened. Man struggles upwards, you can't build your own charm, and gradually you can't attract your wife, and your wife will naturally move on.

How to communicate when a wife is divorced?

1. If the wife is clamoring to go back to her parents' house, let her go home for a few days first. In the meantime, you all have a cooling-off period. Let's see what's wrong, but even if you don't pick up your wife, you should send her a text message. Although the other party doesn't return your text messages, you are still paying attention to what you sent. If two people work together to solve the conflict, your wife can follow you home.

2. Some people say that a wife can't be too spoiled or used to it. In fact, the way two people get along is very important. Some trivial things naturally have to be coaxed to the wife. If it is a matter of principle, we must see the facts clearly, otherwise both of them will lose themselves in the end. When the wife is angry about some small things, it is also very useful to give some small surprises appropriately.

How to coax a wife to divorce?

1, many women just choose to divorce because they can't stand the injustice in marriage. In fact, when a woman divorces, it will be very painful, because she can't get the understanding of her husband and the support of her family. Many times it is because two people can't communicate, so as a husband, you must communicate with your wife more, so as to avoid divorce.

As the saying goes, don't smile if you raise your hand. Since your wife is divorced, you must just want to see what's on your mind, so at this time, no matter who is right or wrong, you can apologize to your wife. When a woman sees that you are not so stubborn to her, she will be very moved. At least I can see that you are sincere with each other.

Skills of wife's divorce recovery

Reasonable methods can make a wife change her mind. After marriage, many men always focus on their own careers and ignore their wives' feelings. Finally, the two men got into a fight and wanted a divorce. Therefore, men at this time must know that home is the driving force of your efforts, and you must let your wife go home. You have to show sincerity to coax your wife. In this way, the wife will be soft-hearted, because the wife still cares about this family. As a woman, since you have paid so much for this family, you should understand your man so that two people can be together.