Low-level parents will behave obviously in the circle of friends and don't know it when they are laughed at by others.

Text | Liar Jun

I remember that when the children first went to kindergarten, the teacher formed a WeChat group, and once parents added WeChat to each other. One night, I saw someone asking to add friends, so I opened her circle of friends to see the situation because I was unfamiliar. As a result, just a few messages made me shake my head again and again. In the circle of friends, she was playing mahjong and swearing, so the verification failed.

As a result, the next day, a fashionable parent asked me, why didn't you pass WeChat yesterday? I was shocked because her dynamics in the circle of friends did not match her current image. If we only look at her image, we will think that she is an intellectual and elegant modern woman. Although I made friends with her later, I don't want to have a deep friendship with her anymore.

People often say that clothes make the man. Today, with the rapid development of information, the circle of friends, as a platform to show personal life or thoughts, is actually another layer of clothes for people. Low-level parents will behave obviously in the circle of friends, not realizing being laughed at by others. If you are a parent and still send these messages in a circle of friends, you need to think twice.

Expose children's privacy and enjoy it.

A mother in the news was once "famous" because of her circle of friends. The reason is that she took her children to Beijing for a trip. She took a photo of her three-year-old baby urinating in Tiananmen Square, proudly accompanied by a caption, calling her baby "stupid" and making her little sister cry. This circle of friends is widely spread because of the poor quality of parents. In the picture, the boy's private parts are exposed.

Many parents began to bask in their circle of friends after having children. Children in the eyes of parents are cute and cute. It's cute to learn to eat with a face of rice, and it's cute to play naked. Even if you don't change heavy diapers overnight, it is evidence that your baby has "a large amount of urine". Show off in a circle of friends.

However, not only your relatives and friends, but also colleagues, partners and other unrelated people are watching your circle of friends. They may not like all kinds of "embarrassing things" about your baby. If your baby's privacy is widely exposed in the circle of friends, I believe everyone who sees it will think that this parent is not very strict.

Often send false information like "turn around ..."

Many young people spit out that parents always like to publish articles with scary or explosive headlines, such as "Turn around …", "Spread …" and "Don't do it again", and they always ask their children if they have read it. In fact, these articles are not true from the title, but they have been recognized and forwarded by parents, indicating that parents have little knowledge and limited cognition.

Send out the message of "haggling on XX"

Some colleagues lamented that they didn't spell XX application, so they registered a bargaining for the parents of their children and classmates, and then deleted it. As a result, the parent had a new mass product and forwarded it to him, asking him if he had cut it, which made him very uncomfortable.

There is nothing wrong with spelling XX itself, but if you help people bargain, you need to download and register yourself without this application. In this process, your personal information is collected, and sometimes there is a risk of information leakage. Regardless of the actual situation and wishes of others, blindly asking others to help bargain, thinking that it will be interesting to cut, is a kind of "moral kidnapping", which actually exposes the quality of being inconsiderate and shows the lack of quality.

Will you let others help you bargain on XX?

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