Why are relatives in life so "evil" and hypocritical?

As the saying goes, "the family is looking forward to poverty." The "home" here refers to one's own family. This is the vanity and jealousy of China people since ancient times. It is an unhealthy mentality, but it stubbornly exists in people's hearts.

First of all, we should lower our expectations of our loved ones. Every family has its own problems. We should solve our own difficulties and don't ask our relatives for help easily. Secondly, insist on reciprocity, don't be too close and have no intention of alienating; The third is to talk less about relatives behind their backs and more about their feelings.