Why don't married men want to have a wedding? What does it mean that married men don't have weddings?

Many people who get married for the second time may choose to get married in a low profile instead of holding a high-profile wedding like the first time, but if they marry the girl who got married for the first time, the other party may still want to hold a wedding, so why don't men who get married for the second time want to hold a wedding?

Why don't married men want to have a wedding when they get married?

The second person who got married didn't want to have a wedding, maybe because he had experienced a failed wedding, so he didn't want to go through it again, or maybe because he thought the wedding was just a formality, and reality was the most important thing. Finally, many people think that holding a grand wedding after the second marriage will make others look at jokes and make them feel ashamed.

When most people get married for the first time, they have high respect for the wedding. When holding a wedding, they wholeheartedly design various programs to prepare for the wedding. For people who get married for the second time, the first wedding is extremely wonderful and respectful, but it ends in divorce. So it will have some influence on his heart, so he is unwilling to go through the completed formalities, which may have a psychological shadow on the wedding. There are also men who have second marriages. Most of them have experienced a lot, and they no longer think that weddings are romantic and sacred like young people. Second-married men pay more attention to the present and the future, and they pay more attention to real life than the form of the wedding. Finally, men usually have self-esteem and pride, and don't want others to see his jokes. Even if the second marriage is a happy thing, it reminds others and himself that he has experienced a failed marriage.

What does it mean that a second-married man doesn't have a wedding

Many divorcees don't have weddings because they are afraid of worldly eyes. Although the society is gradually opening up, rumors still exist in many areas, especially divorce and remarriage are not a glorious thing, so many second-married people do not hold weddings.

Many people cast a shadow over this matter because of a failure. They are unwilling to try again for fear of failing again. It is encouraging for the second-married men to have the courage to start a new marriage, which is also the result of their efforts. But for the wedding, it is likely that the first failed marriage will cast a shadow. Basically, everyone is very cautious about first marriage and attaches great importance to it. In this case, failure will also have a great impact on yourself, thus affecting the future wedding.

Can I have a wedding for the second time?

Some customs think that a second marriage cannot be held. This is all superstition. Of course, the second marriage can be a wedding. Everyone has the right to pursue true love. Although it is a second marriage, it is not an affair. It's the feeling after the last marriage. Fair and square, you have to share a piece of the action. In fact, the second marriage is not worse than the first marriage. As long as it is not a fraudulent marriage, a fair love marriage can still be blessed by everyone. In particular, it is very unfair for the first-time married person to get married just because the other half gets married for the second time.

So the second marriage can also be a wedding.

: Zhao Nvshi, 37 years old

If a married couple cares too much about gifts and weddings, their marriage may not be happy. If two people are sincere, they will be equally happy even if they don't have a wedding.

My husband and I got married for the second time. My home is better than my husband's. I'm still an only child, but we didn't get married for the second time.

I think the life of a couple depends on whether the other person is really good to himself or not. It doesn't make much sense for a married couple to talk about these ostentation and extravagance in front of outsiders.

I have a friend with me. She and her husband are also married. The wedding held at that time was more grand than the first one, but it was a pity that the ceremony could not cover up the content. A few days before the wedding, she was still with her old lover. A week after marriage, she found her old lover again. Tell me, even if such a couple is married, what's the point?

Ms. Liu, 35 years old

I think the second marriage and the first marriage deserve congratulations, and there is nothing to be ashamed of. Married couples still value affection and respect, as long as they can show that the man loves you and the man's family respects you.

As for the wedding scale of the second married couple, there is really no need to be too extravagant. My husband and I got married for the second time, and the wedding will be held soon. We just bought a diamond ring and a pair of rings, then invited our close relatives and friends to dinner, and then lived a quiet life, that's all.

Ms. Wu, 42 years old

Should married couples still hold weddings? I think this question depends on what I think. This is also my second marriage. Actually, I don't want to do it, but my husband doesn't agree. He said I wouldn't do it. How can anyone know that I am her daughter-in-law? I must do it, and it is more grand than the first marriage.

Anyway, I personally think that holding a wedding is the most meaningless thing and a double waste. Whether a married couple has a happy life is not measured by how the wedding is held, but the most important thing is whether the relationship is harmonious.