Why do many people say not to tell anyone what they think easily?

Everyone will have their own secrets in life, and everyone will have their own ideas, but these secrets are destined to belong to you alone. Don't tell others easily. Countless painful lessons tell us. Don't tell anyone what you think easily.

All secrets are not secrets as long as they pass through the mouth of the second person. After your thoughts are known by others, you can't guarantee that others won't help you spread them. Word travels a thousand miles, and you don't know whose mouth your secret thoughts will pass, nor what kind of treatment they will go through. When they come back to your ears again, they have changed dramatically from your original intention. How should you deal with yourself at this time?

Not everyone who confides in you deserves to be honest with you without reservation. You never know who will betray you. And you don't have to tell everyone what you think. You're not talking about worrying. Keep your heart, people who know you will understand without telling you. People who don't know you will only treat your heart as a joke and tell others about your thoughts and pains everywhere, which will only make you a Xianglinsao in Lu Xun's works and a laughing stock of others.

Many times, you can only chew and digest your own thoughts, and don't tell anyone easily. Mr. Lu Xun wrote in "Little Miscellaneous Feeling" that people's joys and sorrows are not connected, but I just feel noisy. There is never empathy in this world, and others will never understand your secret thoughts, which will only add trouble to you, so you don't have to tell anyone what you think.

Just say three words to everyone and don't lose my heart at all. You can't tell your secret, and you can't tell everyone about the difficulties in your life. Nobody has experienced your life, so nobody knows how you feel. It is better to be strong and brave, face the storms of life alone and be the only witness of your life.