How does a middle-aged man who lost his wife live?

1. Organize your wife’s belongings and pack away important things. Deal with what needs to be dealt with.

Don’t see your wife’s things in any corner at home. Thinking about her will make you sink into pain and unable to cheer up. Of course, putting it away doesn't mean you don't love her. She is your past and a part of your life. No one can replace the importance of her existence.

2. If you are unwilling to get out of pain, others cannot help you. Understand that you are the master of your own life.

It is better to understand the truth that others have told you a thousand times, especially when the emotion comes to an abrupt end. Your emotions can no longer be exported and received. Only by recognizing the current situation can you truly wake up.

3. Focus more on your children’s experiences.

Because children are the future and your hope. You can feel the beauty of life in them. We need to communicate more with our children and tell her that we can only accept and face the unchangeable facts, and then work hard to live a positive life. Cherish the time you spend with your children, and give double love to them, yours and your wife's.

4. Get out of the house more and participate in outdoor activities.

Let your children and yourself feel the sunshine, the air, and the happiness in front of you. Don't be stuck at home all the time, get in touch with the society more, participate in various meaningful public welfare activities, and feel your importance, need, and need in the process of helping. You will find more and more that life is beautiful and beautiful.

5. There is no need to force yourself to change some of the habits you have developed with your wife. You can let yourself miss the past, but you should also look to the future and the distance.

Reminiscing about the past shows that you are a nostalgic person, and your emotional dedication is very dedicated and persistent. But for you, life is still very long, and there is no need to close your emotions. If you meet someone who truly appreciates and likes you, you must cherish it very much, and don't let it go easily because of your children or external reasons. But don't be too hasty and look for it for the sake of looking. You must wait patiently and wait for true love for you to appear.