topic terminator

when chatting, we are most afraid of meeting the topic terminator.

You just went to a new company and tried to befriend the colleague sitting next to you, but even after three sentences, the other person refused to look up, only gave you a faint reply.

You were so happy to see this movie that you recommended it to your friends. Gee, this movie is great. Go and see it. I didn't expect my friend to smile coldly and say that watching a movie will make you so happy.

I finally made an appointment with a girl I like and went out for dinner. You looked up and said that she was burying her head in eating. Asked a lot of questions, but the girl said casually, oh, no.

when you meet a topic terminator, the worst thing is not to get a rebuff, but you may even wonder if you should never have come to earth.

I divide the topic terminators into three types, the first one is called "Puzzle" type, the second one is called "Bargain" type, and the third one is called "Picky" type.

Most people who are stuck in the past are people with social phobia because of their personality. Men account for the majority of this kind of people. They are always reticent and solitary, and they think there is no need to communicate with others, or they feel that they can't find a topic all the time, so they just shut up. Actually, this kind of people are also troubled. They also want to talk more with each other, but they just can't open their mouths and can't find a way to chat.

Most people who are pushy have a strong sense of self and love to judge everything with their feelings. I think good is good, and bad is bad. There is no objective word in life, and I often love to fight back with some incredible logic.

the lever essence is a wonderful description of this kind of person, who is refined and not to be taunted.

The legendary three laws of leverage:

I heard a joke. There is a big brother who especially likes personal wrangling. One day, he drove past the toll booth on the expressway, and the toll collector politely said, Hey, hello. The big brother opened his mouth and said, what's good? What's good about paying? The toll collector took the money and said politely, hey, take your time. Big brother is more energetic and says, what's slow? This is the expressway.

You said that when you meet such a person, do you reason with him, or do you play hooliganism with him?

Picky people are the most hidden among topic terminators. Sometimes it is difficult for us to detect such people. However, if we talk to such people for a long time, we will feel inexplicable fatigue and frustration. Anything positive, passionate and beautiful will be painted gray when it comes to him. He doesn't directly oppose or attack you, but chooses some unremarkable questions to express his so-called unique views.

A good friend of mine, Xiao Ming, whose girlfriend, Cui Hua, especially likes Japanese cartoon culture, especially Kumamon. One day, Xiaoming passed by Sanlitun in Beijing and found that there was a Japanese food activity, and there was a Kumamon jumping around. Ronaldinho happily took out his mobile phone and took a few photos at continuous shooting, Kumamon, sent them to Cui Hua, and sent them to WeChat cheerfully, haha, look who I met. I didn't expect that after two minutes, Xiaomin replied very coldly. It's fake. Luo's enthusiasm was suddenly drained by half, but he still asked, this is a Japanese food activity in Sanlitun. Do you want to come and see it? Cui Hua and drag back to the four words. Imitation, not true. The chat is over.

it's really depressing.