Many parents always lose their temper when helping their children with homework. What is the reason?

Every time I do my homework, I always fumble here and there. I drink water, go to the toilet, and want to chat with me before I finish writing a line.

Remind her to be serious and focused. She just buried her head in writing a few words, and after a while she turned around and said: "Mom, let me tell you a joke!"

In order not to hit you, I am the one who suppressed my temper and hurt myself internally. What a joke!

After being reminded many times, I finally couldn't control myself. I picked up my homework and threw it on the ground and said, "If you want to write, don't write. If you don't want to, go pick up trash!" Then I cursed him until the child cried. Only then did I suddenly realize that I had lost control of my emotions.

Why do we always lose our temper?

After apologizing to my child and comforting her, I reflected on the reasons why I lost control of my emotions.

The child's performance in homework is only the trigger of the incident. The real reason for the loss of control is the accumulation of negative emotions. Every day, I see many parents in the group posting about their children's studies, and my pressure suddenly increases. , excellent children always belong to other people’s families.

Coupled with the accusations and incomprehension from my family, they believed that my child was sick because I didn’t take good care of him, and that my child didn’t learn well because I didn’t educate him well. This made me angry, nervous, and frustrated. This kind of emotion lasted for a long time. The backlog becomes overwhelming, and eventually the child loses control and gets hurt.