Marriage requires management. What is the key to maintaining a marriage?

Marriage requires management. What is the key to maintaining a marriage?

In the divided views on mate selection, the three words "treat me well" seem to be the appeal of all girls. When every girl is young, she already has great hopes for her future partner. She hopes that she can be held in the hands of someone and care for her, that she can take over the baton from her parents and become her father-in-law from now on. Besides my mother, I am the best person in this world to me.

Marriage is like a gamble, and most of the people who get hurt in this game are women. We often see examples of women not being respected in marriage. Marrying the wrong person is a devastation. As long as a boy can know how to love her and care for her, a woman will put aside all her scruples and rush towards marriage indifferently. But we all need to see one thing clearly, that is, "being good to you" is the bottom line of a relationship, and it should not become some kind of advantage for a man, nor should it be the basis for you to choose a person.

Some people say "I will always be good to you" is just empty talk and never implemented. Some people say that they will be good to you, which only exists in the love stage until they feel that they have obtained it after getting married. This will be forgotten. "Being good to you" is sometimes just a blank check, or it may just be a common trick of some people. As long as you hit the hot spot at a certain moment, you will be forgotten until the fire is strong.

Being kind to you is actually just a low-cost investment, and the key to maintaining a marriage lies in the compatibility of souls, which depends on the word "understanding". What a woman really needs in love is not to be nice to her, but to understand. 1 A marriage that lacks "understanding" is of no use to her no matter how good it is.

The love between Zhou Rong and Feng Huacheng in "The World" lacks a trace of understanding. They came together because of admiration at the time, and they will be admired in the future. When it fades away, love goes away. One of them is ignorant and the other is indifferent. The only characteristic is that both of them are selfish and only think about what is in their own hearts. They never want to learn to let go of themselves and try to understand the other party.

Feng Huacheng was very good to Zhou Rong. He did all the housework, and Zhou Rong never touched Yang Chun Shui. But in the end, the hearts of the two of them were far apart. No matter how good the superficial efforts were, they could not heal. of.

In "Madame Bovary", Bovary is a real person. He fell in love with his wife Emma at first sight, and regarded marrying her as a lifelong honor, and he was overwhelmed with joy. After getting married, I do my best to pamper her and love her. Because he was unwell, the family moved to another place. Because he wanted to ride a horse, he tried every means to buy a horse. She wanted to play the piano, and even if her family was not rich, she tried her best to achieve it. He tried his best to let her go and give her greater recognition, but he didn't know that she took advantage of his kindness and betrayed him twice.

Bovary is very kind to Emma, ??but I don’t understand her at all, her romance, and her yearning for royal life. He is ordinary, has no style, and behaves like a tablet on a crosswalk. , he can neither swim nor use a sword or a gun. He is completely alien to Emma's idea of ??a warrior, and has long been completely cut off from him in Emma's heart. A marriage that lacks understanding is of no use to her no matter how good it is. You can satisfy the aspects of her life, but you cannot satisfy her innermost requirements. This kind of love is destined to wither. 2 Only understanding is the blessing of love

Love is very important. A marriage without love can only be a mirage that will eventually collapse, but understanding is also very important. In the name of love, plus understanding With the blessing of these two words, your married life can be long-lasting.

In "The World", Cai Xiaoguang really loves Zhou Rong. He has been in love with her since junior high school. It has not changed over the years. He has always been by Zhou Rong's side, quietly caring about her and loving her. she. He is also the person who understands Zhou Rong best in the world. He understands his indifference and her persistence, and is willing to protect her innocence. With just one look or movement from her, he completely knows what she is really thinking in her heart. What.

With such a person, the two of them have less unnecessary suspicions. They don’t need to doubt each other or blame each other. That understanding brings them closer and understand each other better. Cherish.

In the final analysis, the word love is too elusive and out of reach. How many romances have become a joke in the end, and how many vows of eternal love are just a puff of smoke that will be blown away by the wind. But that understanding is hard-won. Finding someone who understands each other is the greatest blessing in the world, and no one will throw it away easily. Love and know how to stay with each other can make the relationship last forever. 3 Finding someone who understands you is a hundred times more important than treating you well

Being kind to you is actually the lowest cost thing in love, and anyone can do it as long as they are willing. A private car will take you to and from get off work, buy you breakfast, and let you cook. Shouldn't this be the standard part of love? Who stipulates that only women can cook in the family? If a person doesn't do simple things like taking you to and from get off work or buying you breakfast, then what's the use of it? As long as a person cares about himself, he can treat you well. This cannot be the main reason for you to marry him.

Women need understanding and mutual understanding. Understanding is more important than love in a relationship. Love will fade, but that understanding will bring two people closer together. When two people are together, they also need to work together to resist life. If the heart can't communicate and can't get together, then even if two people live under the same roof every day, they will be helpless and embarrassing. Find someone who understands you. Being nice to you is just the basis, don’t be completely bound by it.