Humor skills

Humor is the magic weapon of interpersonal communication, and everyone wants his friends to be more humorous. Humor is divided into two parts, one is our ability to feel humor, and you can think of humor when others tell a joke; The second is our ability to create humor and whether we can make others laugh when we speak. The two are complementary, and no matter which one is added, the other will also be added. The author analyzes how to cultivate his sense of humor from a psychological point of view. Contact in various occasions will be confident and relaxed.

The basic skills of humor:

1, have eyes that are good at discovering humor, cultivate profound insight, improve observation and imagination, and cultivate wit and agility. We should be good at using associations and metaphors to link two different things or ideas and produce unexpected results.

2. Expand your knowledge. Humor is a manifestation of wisdom, which must be based on rich knowledge. Therefore, to cultivate a sense of humor, we should read widely, enrich ourselves, constantly collect humorous radio waves from voluminous books, and extract humorous gems from the essence of interesting stories of celebrities.

3, cultivate sentiment, optimistic reality, humor is the performance of tolerance. To be considerate of others and learn humor, we must learn to be generous, overcome haggle over every ounce, and be optimistic at the same time. Optimism and humor are close friends. If there were more fun and relaxation, more smiles and games, more optimism and humor in life, there would be no insurmountable difficulties, and there would be no people who would be sad all day.

4. Have some fun for yourself. Rent some movies and videos to watch, such as Meeting My Father-in-law, Young Frankenstein, Wonder Man, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Long Live Rock, Animal House, Gunman, Inverted Gankun and Finding Nemo. Always reward yourself with a little laughter, Hollywood style.

Recall the most embarrassing moment in your life and find humor in it. Then practice weaving stories and expressing them in a humorous way. It may need to be exaggerated or dramatic, but good stories are told like this. If you expose your shortcomings and laugh at yourself, you will be more involved in a humorous lifestyle.

6, improve language expression ability, pay attention to the collocation and combination with body language.

7. If necessary, first "silence yourself", that is, laugh at yourself and make fun of yourself.

Of course, at the same time of humor, we should also pay attention to the importance of not being careless, treat different problems differently, and be extremely flexible in dealing with them, so that humor can provide real nourishment for human spiritual life.