What should I pay attention to when looking through my boyfriend's chat record?

First of all, reading each other's chat records may make us misunderstand. Secondly, in the process of reading chat records, I think the most important thing is to be calm. I used to be angry. Almost missed him.

In fact, it happened just a few days ago. I watched him chatting with his good brother on a whim. Now that I think about it, I regret it. He's right. There are some things I don't need to see. The thing is, he gave me a screenshot a long time ago, and there was a chat record like "She is too clingy", which was in the chat record with his brother. He probably didn't expect girls to be so careful. I would have noticed this if I took a long screenshot, so I didn't post such words. We were just good friends at that time. He never confessed to me, and I didn't know he liked me. I am curious. "She's too clingy" means me? I think so. On the whole, I think when he said "she is too clingy", he hated me for sticking to him. Curiosity is curiosity, but I didn't ask, didn't dare to ask, and didn't have the courage to ask. After being together, it's been too long, I don't remember it, and I forgot to ask. But our attitude has always been that we don't mind each other playing mobile phones and often play together, not because of snooping, but because we want to know what the other party is usually concerned about. Moreover, we both feel that as long as we are open-minded and aboveboard, there is nothing we can't see, but of course we must let bygones be bygones, whether it is our predecessors, brothers of the opposite sex or ambiguous objects. Dying, I suddenly remembered that day. He happened to be with me, and so was his cell phone. I gave him an evil smile and said, "I remember watching you chat with xx once before, and you said I was clingy, so I'm going to have a look ~" Then I picked up his mobile phone and found the chat record very well. He grabbed the phone and said, I'll have a look first, and then I'll show it to you. I said don't delete it. As a result, he secretly deleted several chat records and then gave me his mobile phone, and frankly admitted that he deleted the chat records. Ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, what an honest and frank boy! However, what he deleted is not what I care about most. What he deleted was a chat record praising the beauty of a girl in his class, but he praised it not only once, but also many times during that time. He said that she was the most beautiful girl in his class. He only deleted it once, and there are many more. In fact, what I care about most is that he says I am too clingy, and even I have to find a reason to brush a Tik Tok and use his brother as a shield. If we're really together, he won't be able to stand it, and we'll split it in less than a week. He also said that if he confessed now, I would definitely promise him, and that he always chose the best, which means something between me and that girl. But he also told me very early that he liked me. I didn't expect to wait for him while I liked it. It's hard for me to accept that love is not pure, but a mixture of two. It turns out that he doesn't like me that much, and I'm not the only one in his heart. Being with me may be his next best choice. I'm sad and angry. Otherwise, I asked him what he liked about me before, and he couldn't say it. He just said that I was kind to him, which is an "advantage" that anyone can replace. He coaxed me for a long time and said that "choosing the best" was his joke. Their brothers always like this exaggerated conversation and understand each other. In fact, after thinking about it, it is true that he is such a person. Isn't that what I like about him? But at that time, emotionally, I just felt that he didn't really like me, and it seemed ok to be with me. I don't believe him at all, so I've been stubborn. Half of my jokes are true, and so do you. He said he didn't really like me, and I said that your subconscious thought so. I made him very uncomfortable, too. He explained that I didn't believe it, and it was very weak and uncomfortable. I also tortured people when I read his chat records. Even if it is really wrong, it has passed, and it is uncomfortable to be looked at page by page like a corpse. Fortunately, he thought of chatting with another friend. He likes to tell him how he felt at that time. Perhaps this friend is more delicate and will take the emotional problems he throws more seriously. At the same time of the last conversation, he told this friend that he really liked me, but I turned him down, which made him feel bad. Obviously, this dialogue is more sincere. There are many kinds of friends, some are just joking, others are just telling the truth. You know he will comfort you and encourage you. We made up soon that afternoon, probably? Two or three hours? Forget it, anyway, we both feel that peace is much faster than before. However, even so, I still regret opening that chat record. It's hard for me to deny how I felt when I saw those chat records. I am sad and a little angry, but there are too many emotions. If they don't reconcile, it's over.