Long-distance love is like not having a boyfriend. What do both sides fear most?

Why do many girls and boyfriends feel like single when they are in a long-distance relationship? Even with an indestructible emotional foundation, they may have parted ways after only one year of long-distance love. For couples, what should be done during a long-distance relationship to make a positive result? Next, the teacher and everyone will analyze why many girls feel that long-distance relationships have no boyfriends. Long-distance love is like not having a boyfriend 1, and you can't find a shoulder when you are sad. Long-distance relationships must be kept in constant contact. You can't see each other often. If you don't let the other person hear your voice, it will be difficult to maintain this relationship. And many times, when a girl is sad, boys can only comfort her on the phone. Long-distance relationships are like this. Although they have boyfriends, girls live like single dog every day, and everything depends on themselves. Over time, girls feel insecure.

I don't feel worried. Because long-distance lovers can't meet often, they need to know how to prepare some small surprises for each other in different places and use them to maintain this split love. But many boys care too much about girls and think that they have no place in his heart, which makes girls feel insecure and finally has to face the situation of breaking up!

What do long-distance relationships fear most? 1, less contact. Many couples have just started living in different places, and they can't wait to call each other, send voice and so on all the time every day. But after a long time, it may gradually become a phone call every two days, and WeChat has several irrelevant punch-in exchanges every day. Even if you contact each other enthusiastically, all you hear is a few perfunctory words and you will stop chatting. At this time, the other party is probably not busy, just tired of this normal state and doesn't want to spend any more.

2. lie. With the long-distance love between lovers, the feelings become very weak. However, it may not be straightforward for the other party to want to separate. At this time, we can only delay through countless lies. If one day something suddenly triggers this lightning point, it will force the other party to confess to you. In fact, many times these lies are relatively low-level. As long as we pay a little attention, it is hard not to find that the other party is already fooling us, and it is basically difficult to stop this kind of lying.

3. I don't want to see each other anymore. At the beginning of a different place, no matter how short the holiday is, I want to fly to each other for a short few days at once. But after a long time, the idea of meeting is getting less and less. Most of them will spend too much money to satisfy. Recently, they are so tired that they can't go to your city and refuse to meet. If you refuse to meet more and more frequently, the other person may not love you as much as before, but just think that such refusal is a very tactful way to tell you that he doesn't want to continue your relationship.

How can long-distance love make two people's feelings stable 1, and chat with each other every day. For a long-distance relationship, because you can't see each other or touch each other, you will be very suspicious of each other, feel that the other party is interacting with other opposite sex, and even feel that the other party doesn't love you. Therefore, in order to stabilize the long-distance relationship, it is necessary for both people to know each other's position and what they are doing, so as to be effective.

2. Meet in another city during the holiday. Although long-distance love is hard to meet, in this era of developed transportation, this distance is nothing, so we can visit each other in the other city during the holiday, which not only relieves the pain of lovesickness, but also makes our feelings deeper and closer, killing two birds with one stone.

These are the reasons why girls feel that they don't have boyfriends when they are in a long-distance relationship. I hope couples can understand each other. Boys should think from the perspective of girls, be considerate of her and love her!