Look at these beautiful and powerful female doctors. Are you only worried about not getting married?

These days, I was screened by the 27-year-old doctoral supervisor of Zhejiang University:

I immediately sent it to a friend. Because just a few days ago, she was still thinking about whether to study for a doctorate, because she was afraid that a female doctor would be laughed at if she didn't marry.

You see, the biggest discrimination against girls in this world is:

"Don't always study, female doctors will be laughed at."

Seeing this statement, I really want to laugh: female doctors don't laugh at you for being uneducated, but you laugh at others for being too smart.

And:

"If you can't get married, it must be because you are too good."

I have a girlfriend with a high salary, but she hasn't been in love for a long time.

Her mother was so anxious that she told her the other day: You must never tell that boy your income, otherwise people will definitely not want you.

What?

Behind this kind of thinking, girls are still regarded as vassals. The academic qualifications and salary of vassals must be lower than that of men.

But who stipulated this?

For thousands of years, girls have torn off their foot wraps, and finally they can walk quickly on the road, flashing the wind.

The girl got rid of the marriage system of "three wives and four concubines", and was finally able to pursue equal love and no longer respect her husband.

When a girl walks out of a square yard at home, she can finally choose her own career and even create her own destiny.

But why do so many people still think:

"You didn't get married early at the right age, so no matter how high your education is, you will fail, no matter how prosperous your career is."

"You didn't find the legendary good husband earlier, so you look so pitiful."

I think the harshest and most unfair criticism in this society is "What's the use?"

Once this sentence pattern is applied, ridicule is like cruel accusation.

"What's the use of higher education?"

"What's the use of reading more?"

"What's the use of earning more?"

"What's the use of being beautiful?"

……

Because of this urging, because of the label of "leftover women", many young girls are forced to lament all day in the best years-why can't I get married?

I'm sorry to hear that, because we could have lived more chic and obeyed our hearts.

I met Liu Xiangzi while watching One Stop to the End, and I always wanted to write about her. Today, I finally found a suitable topic.

She is a doctor of physics at Yale University, and her main direction is electron microscope. When others said that girls would never study physics, she walked all the way to the doctor.

I am beautiful and full of heroic spirit.

When answering questions, it is very stylish, and the whole person exudes an elegant power.

I was particularly moved when I saw Weibo in Liu Xiangzi. She is not only a doctor of physics, but also has such profound knowledge of philosophy, history and literature. It may be easy to go to Wan Li Road, but she still has to study in thousands of books.

Because fans asked her what to do if she was particularly confused, she typed the following passage on Weibo.

I was surprised, but in the end, she said simply, I know my limitations, so I continued to study.

This really makes me feel ashamed.

Because look at her Po's reading records, she dabbled in a wide range, completely killing us ordinary people:

She is beautiful, but not arrogant; She has knowledge, but she is not arrogant.

What I like is the modesty between her words and her eyes.

This humility must come from her long-term knowledge precipitation.

You still laugh at people who are female doctors? Come on, you may not even pronounce his name correctly.

I have a neighbor, and his favorite sentence is-what if you have a high degree and a high income? You can't get married ...

But Liu Xiezi's husband is a rock singer. They are so sweet.

What if a girl with high education and high income doesn't get married for a while?

Every time I look at Liu's Weibo and see her posting beautiful photos of herself in the lab, I think she doesn't care.

Never mind that there are so many people in this world who say:

"What's the use of higher education?"

"What's the use of reading more?"

"What's the use of earning more?"

"What's the use of being beautiful?"

……

Because she is her, she looks good and lives smartly and profoundly.

That's good. That's good.

I've written many stories about girls, all born after 90:

If you have a high degree, you will study for a doctor all the way; Entrepreneurship has received tens of millions of financing.

What we need is to be treated like boys.

Because we have the energy and ability to strive for and achieve more.

If it is not encouraged, at least it should not be despised, ridiculed or even suppressed.

Promise me that you will live in the posture you like.

Also promise me that there is only one topic left in this life-"When can I get married?" .

After all, Tanabata is coming again, and I hear countless girls sigh that there is no love.

Looking at these beautiful, powerful and young girls, I always feel that we can live in a rich and beautiful world like them and stick to ourselves.

Even if there is no love for the time being, we still have countless books to read, from astronomy to geography; We have countless places to go, from Iceland in the north to the polar regions in the south.

No matter what others say, we just want to get a high degree, read more books and make more money. buy buy will buy it! We must live a short life.

The happiness and richness of life lies not only in whether there is a "suitable" person, but in whether there is that person or not, we are gentle enough and strong enough.

Finally, I want to share with you a passage from my favorite writer Juck Zhang:

"At noon on Saturday, several girls got together, the weather was fine and the food was delicious, discussing history and politics. I can't think of anything more pleasant.

Society has labeled us countless times. By default, when we are together, we can only complain that "there are not many good men", but my friends ignore these and just enjoy the summer sunshine together ostentatiously, chatting about the places we want to go and the dreams we want to accomplish.

Coffee is delicious, cakes are sweet, and even pomegranate trees in the yard are in full bloom to celebrate this beautiful day. "

Come on, let's enjoy it together and enjoy this wonderful day.