Tu Lei said three points to see through the false proposition of long-distance love.

Three typical problems:

1, about understanding. When a woman says "I don't feel well and feel bad" or "I'm angry and someone bullied me", men usually give solutions, such as "drinking water" or "soaking in sugar water" or telling you a joke. But what women ask is not the solution, but the understanding, such as "Does it hurt?" "What's the matter?" "How painful is it?" "How can I make you happier" is similar to this greeting, but most men give a solution, "Drinking water won't make you see a doctor", "Why don't I bring you medicine back" and openly say "I have tried my best to solve your problem", but what women want is not the case. What women want is tenderness.

2. About loneliness. Men and women understand in completely different ways. Men miss you when they are lonely, and women are lonely when they miss you. Most men are more realistic. When they are empty and lonely, they often think of their companions, while when women miss you, they tend to be more lonely.

3. About waiting. When men are so busy, no matter how many messages women send, men will answer "Oh", but women are different. No matter how busy a woman is, she may also pay attention to her lover's mental state at the moment.

Second: women can't stand loneliness.

Women are animals that need companionship. From the beginning of love to separation, women always like to think that everything is what they think. In the middle and late period of love, once there is emotional estrangement, you always think that his indifference is because he is too busy to work hard for your future life and care about you. After breaking up, you think that as long as you put down your self-esteem, you can beg for love and save the feelings between two people. Actually, it's not. He just doesn't love you that much.

Third: Long-distance love is far away.

Long-distance love is a fake topic. Nowadays, science and technology are so developed and transportation is so developed. Is long-distance love a problem? This is not a problem at all. On the contrary, long-distance relationships prove that many people don't love each other enough.

As a man, are you really that busy? Are you too busy to eat or go to the toilet? Can't you video with your girlfriend? No matter how busy you are, can't you tell her something about your troubles at work? Make her feel that someone still misses me and cares about me. Can't you? Don't say you call every day. Since she always feels uneasy, you should call more and be more patient. I believe that even if some people make ten calls a day, nine calls are useless. For example, if you call and say, "Hey, I'm busy, talk to you later", what's the point? It's purely for handling things.

Two people want to be together, and no one can stop them. Many people are just too good at making excuses for themselves. If you miss her, you will want to know what state she is at the moment. You don't think so, so there are various reasons and reasons.