Is it reasonable to say that "the old man shaved his tail and married his daughter-in-law and forgot his mother" in rural areas?

Rural proverb: The old man shaved his tail, married his daughter-in-law and forgot his mother? It doesn't make sense, because mom usually thinks so. After the son got married, the relationship with his mother was not as close as before, so a mother said? Married a daughter-in-law and forgot mom? In fact, it is not forgetting the mother, but that children will put more energy into their own small families when they have their own small families.

The old man shaved his tail, married his daughter-in-law and forgot his mother? Shan Lao Xie Fu is another name for rural magpies. This sentence seems to mean that Shan Laoshe married his wife and forgot his mother, but it is actually a metaphor for a man who married his wife and forgot his mother. Every boy of marriageable age will marry this girl as long as he has a girlfriend and a good relationship. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the first thing that newlyweds have to face after marriage. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been the most difficult and subtle relationship in China since ancient times, and this sentence? Married a daughter-in-law and forgot mom? Most will appear at this time.

Generally, it is the parents of the son. After the son gets married, it is easy to feel this way. There are generally two reasons for this feeling.

1. The parents of their son felt left out after their children got married.

When the child is not married, the relationship between the child and the parents will be closer, and the mother will have very deep feelings for the child and will be emotionally dependent on the child. Children will naturally pay more attention to parents who have no other half. When the child gets married, this kind of attention will be given to the daughter-in-law. Some parents will feel left out at this time, so they will feel that the child has married the daughter-in-law and forgotten the mother.

2, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, and the son stands in the half of the daughter-in-law, making the mother-in-law jealous.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been difficult since ancient times. Conflicts are particularly easy to arise between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Mother-in-law thinks that the child is born by herself. If there is a contradiction, the child will naturally stand on her side, but when the child stands on his wife's side, the mother-in-law is particularly prone to the idea that her son married his daughter-in-law and forgot his mother.

In fact, few people forget their mother when they marry their daughter-in-law. Only ungrateful people will forget their mother, but the fundamental reason is not to marry a daughter-in-law, but to have no conscience. Such people will eventually forget their mothers whether they marry a daughter-in-law or not, and most men are still very kind to their parents after marriage and will not forget their mothers. Children who have their own small families after marriage will naturally put most of their energy into their own families, but their parents are equally important in their hearts. Parents sometimes have feelings for their sons? Married a daughter-in-law and forgot mom? I also need to adjust my mentality. As a son, you should try your best to be filial to your parents after marriage and care more about them at ordinary times.