Unveiling the Mystery of Jia Yingchun's Personality: Why is Jia Yingchun so weak and incompetent?

Jia Yingchun is the second young lady of Jia Fu and the daughter of Jia She of Guo Rongfu. Yingchun, like other sisters in the Jia family, is attractive because of her "slightly plump skin, good figure, fresh plums on her cheeks and greasy goose fat on her nose". Compared with Tanchun's shrewdness, Yingchun, who is also a concubine, is gentle and silent. Because of Jia Yingchun's consistent honesty, forbearance, cowardice and incompetence, he was nicknamed "Ermu" in Jiafu, and was finally forced to marry "Zhongshan Wolf", which ended in tragedy.

■ All kinds of "Ermu" of Yingchun are shown in A Dream of Red Mansions. Jia Yingchun, like other sisters, ranks among the twelve women's books, but among a group of unique and talented sisters, the image of Yingchun is bleak. For example, in the third episode of A Dream of Red Mansions, through Daiyu's eyes, Tanchun's first encounter gave people the impression of "eager to fly, the essence of literary talent". When Xifeng met for the first time, she also gave the impression of "seeing the person first, then hearing his voice", while when Yingchun met for the first time, she gave the impression of being "gentle, silent and amiable". In fact, Yingchun's natural forbearance makes her lack of existence, and in most cases she becomes a supporting role, lacking the beauty and relaxation that life should have.

Yingchun is only Nuo Nuo and patient. As Xing Er said, "The second girl is nicknamed' Second Mother' and I don't know how to poke the needle." Although this is a private gossip on the page, it makes sense. In the seventy-third episode of A Dream of Red Mansions, Yingchun's wet nurse stole something as a gambling book. When Mrs. Xing asked Yingchun why she didn't strictly discipline her wet nurse, Yingchun bowed her head and made a belt. It took her a long time to answer, "I told him twice, but he didn't listen, which made me very helpless. Because he is a mother, only he said mine, and no one said his. " It can be seen that Yingchun is weak and incompetent, to the point where even her wet nurse can bully at will.

What's more, Yu Zhuer, the daughter-in-law of Yingchun's wet nurse, came to intercede with Yingchun, but was politely refused. She was very upset and accused Yingchun of asking their family for a lot of things. Embroidered orange was furious, and Yingchun stopped: "Stop it! You can't bring Jin Feng, so there's no need to make a fuss. I don't want that phoenix either. Even when my wife asked, I said I lost it, so I won't hinder you. Go out and have a rest. Why bother? " Here, it is clear that the wet nurse made a mistake, but she took advantage of Yingchun's bullying to bite back, while Yingchun was righteous, but she was willing to suffer and tried to make peace. No wonder you got the nickname "Ermu" after such compromise and concession. Even if Tanchun and Pinger wanted to support her, Yingchun just said, "... their fault is their own making, and I can't woo, so I won't blame it. As for what I take privately, I will accept it; Don't send it, don't want it. Ladies will come to ask me if I can hide my secretive past, which is his nature; I can't hide ... "Yingchun's remarks are really a helpless fight. No wonder Wang Xifeng said that "both girls are useless".

In the seventy-seventh episode of A Dream of Red Mansions, Mrs. Wang searched the Grand View Garden, and Zhou Rui's family found the man's clothes and letters from Siqi's box. Mrs. Wang thinks Siqi is indecent and intends to drive her out of the Grand View Garden. When Zhou Rui's family brought this matter back to Yingchun in the Ming Dynasty, Yingchun just burst into tears and did not make any resistance. Siqi also turned to Yingchun for help, but it didn't help, because Yingchun "speaks slowly and speaks softly, but can't give priority." When Si Qi saw this, he knew he couldn't hide. He knelt down and cried, "What a cruel girl! I have been fooled for two days, and now I don't even have a word? " Yingchun said tearfully, "I know what you have done, and I am still very sympathetic. I am finished." You see, people who have been in the painting for several years have gone anyway. You're not the only one. I think everyone in this garden will go. Personally, I will break up in the future. Why don't you go separately? Siqi couldn't, so he had to kowtow to Yingchun with tears in his eyes. "。 Siqi, who was expelled from the garden, cried all day. Because her mother didn't approve of her marrying Pan Youan, Si Qi crashed into a wall and died.

Although Siqi's death is not directly related to Yingchun, if Yingchun can take care of her maid like Tanchun and stand up and plead for Siqi, perhaps Siqi's fate will not be so tragic. It's a pity that Yingchun is weak and obedient, not only failing to protect Siqi, but also comforting Siqi to "have a rest". Yingchun's cowardice led to her resignation. When the conflict continued on her, she ignored others in order to maintain her own safety. The "two trees" of Yingchun not only hurt themselves, but also hurt the people around them.

■ Why did Yingchun become a "second wood"? Spring Festival is one of the four seasons in Jiafu. How did you become a weak and incompetent "two-wood"?

In fact, Yingchun's cowardice also comes from her inferiority complex. In psychology, inferiority refers to the complex mentality of individual weakness, incompetence, inferiority or inferiority. Psychologist Adler believes that inferiority comes from childhood weakness and helplessness, coupled with organic defects and social contusion, which will make people form a complex complex. Specifically, Yingchun's inferiority complex mainly comes from two reasons, one is the identity of unmarried women, and the other is the pressure of lack of talents.

As the pressure of concubines, Yingchun was born of forgiving her father's concubine. In the hierarchical feudal society, its status is not the same as that of having children. Coupled with the early death of Yingchun's mother, Yingchun's inferiority complex can be imagined. Due to inferiority complex, Yingchun has become more and more resigned. She will neither actively pursue her own needs, nor dare to express her wishes bravely. When things happen, she mostly adopts the strategy of turning small into big and is willing to be invisible.

The early death of Yingchun's mother made her lack of care since she was a child. Psychologically speaking, a person's sense of security depends largely on the intimacy between infancy and childhood. The more their emotional attachment needs are met, the more perfect their personality development and intimate relationship will be. In the growing process of Yingchun, her emotional attachment has always been blank. She lost her maternal love since she was a child and never got the love of her father and brother. In addition, Jia She, as a father, is dissolute and lewd, doing nothing, and never restraining and educating his children. As a half-brother, Jia Lian also inherited his father's lewd love affair. In addition, he has to rush about the affairs of Guo Rong's family on weekdays, so he has no time and energy to care about this sister. Besides, although Mrs. Xing is nominally the mother of Yingchun, she is full of hatred for Yingchun in her bones. She once sneered, "You were raised in front of my master, and the detective girl here was raised in front of my second master. She comes from the same background. Your mother is ten points better than Aunt Zhao. You should be better than a detective. Why are you not as good as him? -but my childless life is clean, and I can't make people laugh! " It can be said that Mrs. Xing's contempt for Yingchun is self-evident.

As the pressure of talent shortage, Yingchun has no characteristics in front of many outstanding women. In the 18th chapter of A Dream of Red Mansions, it was written that relatives in Yuan Chun province demanded "the right amount of questions", and Yingchun wrote a poem "Sexual Pleasure": The garden was beautifully prepared, and life was ashamed of the rich amount of questions. Who believes that there is such a situation in the world? Such a limerick is not even as good as Tanchun, let alone competing with Xue and Lin. In the 22nd episode of A Dream of Red Mansions, Yuan Chun asked all his sisters solve riddles on the lanterns, but she and Jia Huan guessed wrong. In that case, although Yingchun tried to comfort herself on the surface that it was just a "joke" and didn't mind, her inner embarrassment and frustration could be imagined.

The thirty-seventh chapter of A Dream of Red Mansions is about everyone opening a poetry club. Li Wan listened to Daiyu's suggestion and asked everyone to have a nickname. Yingchun said, "We are not good at poetry. Why do we get a nickname for nothing? " As a result, Baochai nicknamed her "Lingzhou" before she passed the customs. Because Yingchun was not proficient in poetry and did not actively participate, she finally got the title of "copying prison". Ying Chun's inner unwillingness is self-evident.

Because of all this, the emotional world of Yingchun has become colder and drier, and her personality has become more and more silent. On weekdays, Yingchun just lives quietly, or reads books, or listens to the arrangement of her sisters. In the Grand View Garden, she lacks the minimum sense of security. No one can support her at the critical moment. Yingchun can only hope to muddle along and make as little trouble as possible. As a result, when the chess game came out, Yingchun's helplessness and indifference were entirely due to her personality. However, as the saying goes, Marsanne's character of being ridden, bullied and meekly accepting the spring laid the foundation for her later life tragedy.

■ In A Dream of Red Mansions, there is a riddle about the Spring Festival in the tragic ending of "Ermu" in the Spring Festival: "Those who are lucky in heaven are not poor in merit, and it is difficult to meet without merit. Why is the town in chaos? Just because the number of yin and yang is different. " The answer to this riddle is an abacus, which seems to vaguely describe the fate of Yingchun being manipulated. In the eightieth chapter of A Dream of Red Mansions, it was revealed that Jia She had received 5,200 pieces of silver. Because she had no money to repay it, she could not bear to beg from the group again and again, so she took Yingchun as a debt.

Jia Yingchun's verdict reads for the fifth time: "My son is a Zhongshan Wolf. If he succeeds, he will go crazy. Golden bouquets of willows, go to Huang Liang for a while. " Yingchun's cowardice made her obey her father's decision and marry Sun Shao. I don't want Sun Shao Group to have a bad personality. "All the daughters-in-law and girls in the family will be lewd if they are blindly lewd, gambling and drinking too much." Yingchun advised him that he called Yingchun a "wife with vinegar sauce" and even threatened to "beat Yingchun out to sleep next door". What a villain. Yingchun couldn't bear it. She went back to Jia's house and cried and complained. Mrs. Wang could only comfort her: "My son, this is your life, too." Mrs. xing doesn't care either. She doesn't ask about marital harmony. She only asks about housework. Yingchun's poor little wish at this time is "I have to live in an old house in the garden for three to five days, and I am willing to die." But after only a few days, Sun Shaozu sent someone to pick it up. Although Yingchun didn't want to go, she was afraid of evil in Sun Shaozu, so she had to bite the bullet. She was abused by Sun Shao Group and died in Huang Liang within a year. It's a pity that Yingchun was born weak and lonely and died miserably. Its fate is regrettable.