The craze of "Zihan" has receded, and a new batch of names of "rotten streets" are coming. Who knows the teacher's helplessness?

From ancient times to the present, parents in China have paid special attention to the issue of "naming their children". From asking the old man to measure the characters, to reading the Xinhua dictionary by themselves, they have basically used all the Chinese characters with beautiful meanings.

After all, there are many people in China, and there is a great demand for names, and personalized requirements are particularly high.

Some parents like to be "lazy" and put their parents' gender first, which is nothing. However, if the father's surname is Wei and the mother's surname is Zhu, should the child be named "Feed the Pig" (Wei Zhu)? This is obviously neither elegant nor easy to cause ambiguity, and it will make the child's life accompanied by ridicule and sarcasm from his peers and friends.

Therefore, naming a name is a big deal, so we must be careful, otherwise it will seriously affect the child's body, mind and personality.

Some parents like to "copy" and are too lazy to ask cultural people for advice, let alone use their brains and look through dictionaries to choose, so they are eyeing the good name of "other people's children". Results A few years ago, every class in every primary school was full of names such as Zi Han, Zi Han, Zi Han or Zi Han. Although it sounds beautiful in rhythm and meaning, it is also quite a bit like a scholar and a handsome man and a beautiful woman, but because there are too many parents who copy it, it seems that the child's name is a bit "bad street".

After all, as a parent, no one wants to shout "Zi Han" in the street, and seven or eight children will turn around!

What's more, after 9 years, parents "sit back and enjoy the success" and "Zihan" in naming their children. I'm afraid the teacher is the most hurt and helpless.

The craze of "Zihan" has gone away, and a new batch of names of "rotten streets" are coming. Who knows the teacher's helplessness?

You see, teachers in primary schools have to call the names of students almost every day in class, organize various teaching activities in class, and guide and urge children not to disturb the school rules and regulations during recess. But if you are a teacher, you will encounter the following situations every day:

Will you feel "your head is as big as a bucket" when you encounter such a dreamlike class dispute like tongue twister?

Fortunately, in recent years, many media have spared no effort to sum up, remind and advise, and most post-9s parents are unconsciously instilled with the wise idea of "not naming their children Zihan". The problem is … a new batch of "rotten streets" names are coming again!

What "Coke", "Yogurt" and "Glutinous Rice" ... See such names, let alone head teachers and classroom teachers. Even we "melon eaters" feel angry and funny: parents who give their children these "rotten streets" names, are you sure this is not because they are greedy?

So what problems should parents pay attention to when naming their children?

first of all, the name is very important, so you should be careful when naming it.

parents' attitudes, ideas and concepts are very important for a name that is likely to accompany a child all his life. We must find out the names and characters of "An" on children's personal images, which will be written in the household registration book. We must not only find out the superficial meaning and profound implication, but also pay attention to avoiding the "creativity" of distinguishing parents from others. Never copy and misappropriate the names of other children just because we are lazy for a while.

Secondly, when naming children, remember not to use too uncommon and complicated words.

Every parent wants their children's life to be perfect, and they are hesitant in choosing names and words. But while choosing good words, parents should try to avoid those "uncommon words" that are difficult to read and write.

If the child's name is too difficult to read, no matter in campus, workplace or society, many people will deliberately avoid calling his name, which will invisibly make the child lose many opportunities and opportunities to communicate with others, which is obviously not worth the candle. If the child's name is too difficult to write, then when he first learns to write and signs every time from childhood, he will breed some unhappiness with his parents and family for no reason, perhaps only for a moment, a little bit, which is believed to be the result that many parents who love their children are unwilling to see.

Thirdly, we must avoid "homophonic".

parents may have low academic qualifications and no education, but they must not be ignorant, let alone listen to advice. Names such as Shi Zhenxiang, Yang Wei, Yu Gang, and Ma Peijing, Wei Teng and Xia Huren look gentle on the surface, but whenever a classmate discovers the hidden "homophonic stalk", there is no doubt that this child will be laughed at by his classmates for many years.

In this case, no matter how beautiful, rare and one in a hundred names are, parents can't help but listen to the advice, and they can't ignore their children's inner feelings of humiliation. It's better to change their names as soon as possible to make up for the carelessness and carelessness in naming their children in the past.

Finally, I want to say:

Names are the first image that others know about their children. Parents should honestly name their children according to their own knowledge and experience, through their own thinking and refining. They should neither "spoil the street" nor "copy", let alone use "uncommon words" and "homophonic words". In this way, parents will pin their good wishes and aspirations on their children.

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