My husband is a stubborn man. My mother's family offended him with jokes and quarreled with me every day for years. What should I do?

Your husband is a stubborn man. Your mother offended him with jokes and quarreled with you day and night for several years. What should I do?

Find the person who made jokes in those days, have a good talk with him, and ask him to apologize to your husband seriously. Be sure to have a correct attitude, and never apologize with contempt for him, which will be counterproductive.

A person who doesn't like jokes, conservative, stubborn, serious, rigid and sensitive. He should have been hurt by the joker's face and self-esteem.

Whoever stepped on his self-esteem and asked him to pick it up might be able to untie the knot.

Of course, this method seems naive and unreliable. Apologize after all this time. If you are willing to try, you can try.

Another way: apologize to him and tell him not to do this. Give him a haircut, wash his hair, blow the wind and buy something he wants. In short, give him a smooth hair, and when it is smooth, it will not be noisy.