A woman in Nanyang, Henan Province was killed by her husband with a knife in the community. Why is the contradiction between husband and wife more and more prominent?

For marriage, "people outside want to go in and people inside want to go out" is a perfect description. Marriage is really a complicated matter. There are too many relationships to maintain and more and more things to deal with in marriage. The previous passion will become dull one day, so the longer we get along, the more contradictions there will be.

First, not quarreling or scolding is actually an abnormal marriage relationship.

As the saying goes, "beating is kissing, scolding is love", but it still makes sense. Of course, couples shouldn't start. When two people establish a love relationship, there will be many contradictions between them from the beginning to marriage, and these contradictions are accompanied by quarrels. If two people have nothing to say, nothing to say, it proves that their relationship is basically over.

It's no big deal that couples can quarrel together. Maybe it's because my husband smokes and my wife does more than one thing. Maybe it's because my wife forgot to put salt in cooking, and my husband blames her. In fact, these little things in life do not affect the relationship between husband and wife. If two people really have too much to say, they just worship and don't quarrel, so life will be less smoky. Second, there are too many practical problems to face.

The couple often quarrel just because they have different views on different issues. However, we must know that there are some differences in personal thinking, not to mention that men and women really have different ways of thinking, so there will inevitably be some collisions and frictions in life.

In addition, a couple living together really has a lot to consider. The husband should bear the burden of the whole family, and the wife should take care of the big and small things at home. Because of the difficulties in life, children and the elderly need to be considered, and the relationship with friends needs to be maintained.

It is estimated that two people will often quarrel over money when they are together, because there are too many practical problems to consider in the life of this couple, which any couple needs to face and experience. So don't be surprised. This is real life.

Third, the people closest to you usually have a bad temper.

You may find that couples quarrel for no obvious reason. The husband was angry when he came home from work because he had problems at work. The wife is very angry because she can't afford the clothes she wants. Maybe sometimes, another person will lose his temper unconsciously and often leave his bad temper to the closest person. Maybe you don't realize it, but most people do. Because you two are so closely connected, you don't have to worry about breaking up easily, which is also a kind of trust and security in your relationship.

You spend the rest of your life with your partner. From now on, you will be together all your life, so if two people live together, there will be no friction every day. You will always look at each other with displeasure, and you will probably quarrel, but it doesn't matter. Husband and wife always argue that "the bed is at the end of the bed". As long as the other party has more trust and understanding, more patience and understanding, nothing is difficult.