After a breakup, does "blocking" your ex mean you really let yourself go?

In the world of emotions, separation and reunification seem to be inevitable.

Although, every couple will have beautiful expectations when their love begins, hoping that one day they can smoothly move from love to marriage, and then appear in front of relatives and friends in the name of husband and wife. Start a happy married life.

But you must know that everyone has different personalities and life backgrounds, and it is inevitable that they will encounter disagreements in the process of getting along.

When conflicts arise, if both parties cannot find a solution calmly, then their relationship will most likely fall apart amid the conflicts, and ultimately, the love between the two will end in breakup.

So, what attitude should two people who originally loved each other use to start a new life after breaking up?

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A reader named Meili left a message saying that after she broke up with her boyfriend, she was reluctant to let him go and completely cut off contact with him, so she secretly, Keep the other party’s WeChat account.

When she met her second relationship, Meimei felt very satisfied. The other person was a mature and steady man who could bring her a sufficient sense of security and gain a lot of knowledge in their daily interactions. The expression of coldness and heat.

Originally, the two were preparing to get a marriage certificate, but at this juncture, a problem arose.

The boyfriend who never looked at his mobile phone suddenly one day held a beautiful mobile phone and looked at her with a strange look. Meimei was shocked and felt something was wrong.

Because, she always has the contact information of her ex-boyfriend in her mobile phone.

One night a few days ago, Meili was thinking that she was about to get married, so she couldn't help but look through her ex's circle of friends, and even accidentally saved the text from the other party's circle of friends. A photo of two people.

Who knew that her small gesture would once again bring new regrets to her love.

Perhaps unintentionally, the boyfriend saw the photos on the beautiful mobile phone and saw a man being intimate with his girlfriend. I think any man would be jealous and have unpleasant emotions in his heart.

Faced with the doubts of her current incumbent, Meili believes that she has done nothing to regret her boyfriend.

But there is her ex’s contact information and photos taken with her on her phone. No matter how she explains it, her current ex will only respond with a sneer. By this time, Meili only hated herself for not deleting her ex's contact information in time, which resulted in leaving such a huge hidden danger for herself.

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Once upon a time, I saw such a topic, "My ex, only deserves to make you cry once".

For many women, they have great expectations and hope that they can successfully enter into marriage with the man they love.

However, when the relationship between two people turns from passionate to dull, what the boyfriend brings to him is no longer joy and happiness. On the contrary, some men lose interest in their girlfriends and become unrestrained. The ground pulled away and left.

When a relationship goes from romantic and warm to the day it breaks up, a woman will be filled with sadness and shed endless tears.

After a breakup, when facing a boyfriend who abandons her, the best way for a woman to deal with it is not to linger in the previous relationship, but to take the initiative to block her ex. This is the greatest respect for love. .

The oaths made forever in the past turned into lies due to the betrayal of the other party.

Even if the love stories in the past are beautiful, women should understand this truth, that is, if a man no longer loves you, no matter how many tears you shed, you will not be able to soften his heart. , and you can’t let your love go back to the past.

On the contrary, learn to be more free and easy, say goodbye to the other person silently in your heart, and from then on, regain your optimism and sunshine, and continue to be a charming girl.

Only when you become strong will you not become a joke in the eyes of others, and will the man who betrayed you be disappointed in his future life and regret missing the woman who should have belonged to him.

Only by restoring your previous charm and starting a wonderful life again will you not let the man who truly loves you pass you by in your subsequent emotional life.

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In the world of love, some hopes are destined to fail.

When pursuing a woman, a man will go all out, and he will not hesitate to talk sweet words to make her happy; however, when the relationship between two people becomes dull, the man may become addicted to games, or other things.

As a result, men ignore their girlfriend’s feelings.

But women are full of hope, looking forward to the day when their boyfriend can change his gaming habit and spend a lot of time with her. They even look forward to the two of them holding hands and getting married.

But after waiting and waiting, and a man’s repeated assurances turn into lies, a woman will realize that the man’s heart is no longer with her, even if she has too many expectations, It's all just fantasy.

Since some people are destined not to make it to the end, why should women bother themselves?

If we can't become lovers, don't imagine that we can continue to get along as friends. This result will not benefit anyone.

When love goes far, taking the initiative to block your ex is actually letting yourself go. Only smart women understand this truth. When the other party proposes to break up, the woman should stop embarrassing herself, take the initiative to block the other party, and lock all the past events into memories.

From now on, you can eat and drink as you should, and be the free and easy woman who loves herself again.

Leaving the other party’s contact information will only cause more trouble for a woman, and it will also lay some fuses for her future love. It is better to delete all contact information of your ex and be ready for a new love.