Tell me about the bad thing you did after lending money to others?

When I borrow money from you, I am the younger brother. After borrowing the money, others are the elder brother. People really have to be thick-skinned, otherwise they will really be bullied by others in the future.

Borrowing money happens often in our lives. As a personal principle, I generally don’t borrow money from others because it’s too troublesome. I don’t have a very good memory and I can’t always remember. I’m afraid that I’ll forget to pay it back to others after I’ve borrowed the money. But this is just my personal thought, but I forget that others will not think of you this way.

When I was in high school, I saved hundreds of dollars. One day, a friend I met in junior high school came to me. He was neither too familiar nor unfamiliar. He suddenly asked me to borrow money, so he borrowed fifty yuan. I thought the loan was quite small, and what others said was so sincere. I also had private money, so I borrowed it. Bar.

I remember that I was not in good health just now and was receiving an infusion in the hospital. He still went directly to the hospital to get the money from me. It would be fine, and he would pay it back to me after a month. At the time, I thought this person was quite credible.

As the saying goes, if you borrow something, you must repay it. It’s not difficult to borrow something again. I think so too. Not long after, he sent me another message, saying that he had something to do recently and needed 300 yuan. When I thought about it, he returned it to me very quickly last time, so I would lend it to him. So, I asked him to come over and withdraw the money.

A few months passed in a flash, during which I met with him several times, but he never mentioned repaying the money. I am too embarrassed to ask others to pay back money. I just endured it and didn't ask him. When I finally needed money, I asked him on QQ.

The first time I asked him if it was OK, he said he would return it to me in two days and asked me to wait. I said yes, and explained for a long time that I wanted to buy something recently and needed money urgently, so I asked you. I thought that after saying this, he would return it to me as soon as possible, but I didn't expect that he still hadn't returned it after a month.

Then I contacted him again and said that I was really useful and needed the money. As a result, others told me to wait, so I waited and waited. What I didn’t expect was that the wait would only be half a month. Then when I messaged him again, he never responded to me. I sent him messages for many days in a row, but he never got back to me.

Until one day, I suddenly discovered that he had deleted me. It was really weird. I get angry when I think about it. I actually have his phone number, but I didn't add him back. I just thought I had lost my money. The important point is that we don't know each other, and we are still in junior high school, so our character can be seen immediately.

I have been thinking about what he would look like if he saw me again now, and what mentality he would have when facing me.