My husband said we were joking. Is it true?/You don't say.

The truth is actually not suitable for joking. If the tone is joking, the truth may become more like a joke. In TV movies, we see some similar scenes, because you can see the story from a macro perspective, so you know the joke is true, for example, sometimes a person casually says, I love you, okay? You have read the previous story, and you know that he really has a crush on this girl, but he joked that he loves others, and they won't take it seriously. Even if we were joking, we knew it was true. But in life, no one can grasp your story in advance. They don't know how much you love yourself in private, so when you joke that you love her, she will really think that you are joking, or it is best to think that you are just testing. In this case, if you are pursuing other girls, you will lose more than you gain. It's easy to miss the opportunity to pursue others because the other person can't see through it. So, I think if there is any truth in a joke, it's that I hate you, because people who love you know that you really hate yourself.

My friend used to be such a person. Her husband recorded a video with him and showed a little video, that is, when you didn't say you loved me, your husband said not to say anything that hurt your feelings. You think this is a joke, but to be honest. It really is! It really hurts an old couple to say this. We have been together for many years, and we should also talk about our love. I don't think it's really necessary. It is the behavior of naive people. People don't love you, they have already ignored you and lived with you. What do you want people to say they love you, not to do?

I used to have a friend who was like this, which made her husband particularly unhappy. Her husband works in a company, and she asks that any phone call should be answered at the first time. As a result, at a meeting, she called, and her husband answered, quietly telling her to have another meeting and call later. After she knew it, she unconsciously let her husband hang up again. Her husband was petrified at that time and didn't know what to do, but she didn't respond. She also said on the phone why she didn't hang up, did you have another meeting, and all the colleagues next to her opened their eyes. Her husband was embarrassed and hung up. As a result, she kept calling, which made her quite unhappy. I think young people really need to grasp the scale when playing romance. Sometimes it's good for you that your husband waves on the phone. Like a TV series. Your husband can only play like this when he is the boss of a business. If he is a wage earner or a middle-level cadre, it will make others very disgusted and even become a joke. Why do you say that?