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What is the psychology of a 56-year-old man? Will he fall in love with another woman?

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The love behavior of the elderly.

May "twilight love" become "sunset red"

"Walking marriage" highlights the various practical difficulties of the remarriage of the elderly who have "twilight love", and to a certain extent reflects the attitude of all walks of life towards the remarriage of the elderly. and lack of attention and support for emotional life.

Cui Peijun, executive member of the Matchmaking Committee of the China Association of Social Work, believes that the silver-haired "walking marriage people" are a special group of people who are helpless. "Walking marriage" is a sexual life of companionship. Although it satisfies the elderly's desire for freedom , happiness, and love needs, but they are legally unprotected.

Wang Quandi, a professor at Fudan University Law School, believes that many children interfere too much in their parents' relationships and marital life in their later years. First, they are too "profit-oriented" and second, they ignore that the elderly and young people are the same. You also have the right to pursue your own happiness. As long as the conditions in the Marriage Law are met, such as having no spouse and no illness that makes marriage inappropriate, it is legal for the elderly to remarry. Interference by children for various reasons is an illegal act in a broad sense.

Wang Quandi suggested that property disputes that may arise after single elderly people remarry can be resolved through legal means such as "pre-marital property agreement" and "property notarization". The final ownership of the property. "For example, in response to the concerns of the elderly and their children, the remarried elderly can agree that the property before marriage will be owned by themselves, and the pension and other properties after marriage will be owned jointly by both of them."

Experts suggest that the elderly should Understand more about their own rights and the relevant provisions of the law. Children should change their minds and think more about the elderly and their happiness and rights. Relevant government departments should also provide more consultation in this regard for the elderly.

Bai Yingtang, professor of andrology at Shanghai 411 Hospital, believes that from a legal perspective, elderly people living together without marriage are not protected by law, so elderly people who fall in love at dusk should adopt normal marriage methods.

Experts suggest that all sectors of society should support and safeguard the remarriage needs of "twilight love" elderly people in accordance with the law, and actively provide legal help to "twilight love" elderly people who encounter obstacles in their remarriage; in addition, local aging offices can set up special elderly Marriage management agencies provide special care and guidance for the remarriage of the elderly, such as signing an agreement between the remarried parties, notarizing pre-marital property, and coordinating the relationship between children.

"Twilight Love" should defend their rights confidently and in accordance with the law

Elderly people are free to remarry

"Today's young people advocate free love, why do they treat the elderly "But you don't understand the choice of remarriage?" Aunt Qian, who currently lives in Guiyang City, said helplessly that as elderly people, they all want to reorganize their families in an upright manner, but many obstacles prevent them from remarriage.

It’s just my best wishes that the couple will grow old together. Elderly singles due to various reasons have brought about the "twilight love" that is common to human beings. However, "unmarried cohabitation", which is popular among fashionable young people, has also emerged. "Twilight love" unmarried cohabitation is a social phenomenon that deserves attention and serious treatment. It is legal for single elderly people to remarry

It is legal for single elderly people to remarry

Remarriage for single elderly people is originally the legitimate rights and interests of the elderly. "Twilight love" unmarried cohabitation is essentially a negative way of protecting rights. There are two subdivisions: one is caused by children blocking marriage due to property. Nowadays, when some children see an old man remarrying, they often don’t think about the old man’s happy old age first, but only think about the old man’s property, for fear that the wealth will flow into the land of outsiders, so they prevent the old man from remarrying. The old man’s legal marriage is blocked, so he has to resort to Unmarried cohabitation is a fait accompli; one is caused by the pressure of secular concepts. For example, if you are worried that you are getting very old, especially if you are an elderly person, you have many children and grandchildren, and your family is harmonious, and you may fall in love at dusk due to mutual affection, you should register your marriage publicly. You are afraid that others will laugh at you for being "old and immoral", so you may live together quietly as an unmarried person.

Since remarriage in old age is a legitimate right granted by the marriage law, there is no need to passively give in and live together without marriage, but should confidently and actively safeguard rights in accordance with the law.

Or protect their rights in accordance with the law through education and guidance for their children. It is necessary to empathize with others and put yourself in their shoes so that your children can understand this truth: "Young couples come to keep company when they are old" and enjoy themselves when they are old. The "twilight love" of the elderly is also for the purpose of being close friends and relying on each other. No matter how filial the children are, they have their own careers and cannot stay together all day. Looking at the old man.

As China ages, the loneliness of single elderly people has become a real problem. Generally speaking, there is a harmonious blend of old and young and intergenerational harmony. However, when the elderly and young people are together, their living habits, social circles, dietary requirements, etc. are also different. Any kind of traditional multi-generational living together will always cause some unpleasant things. It is necessary to dispel the distracting thoughts of children who "only care about money and ignore family ties". When the relationship between children and the elderly is harmonious, inheritance is indispensable. As a child, in order to repay the kindness of the elderly for raising you, it is better to be more open-minded. Earn wealth by yourself, don't focus on that little property.

Or adopt self-psychological adjustment to safeguard rights according to law. The worries that the elderly have about remarriage are completely unnecessary. What's the point? The Marriage Law has no upper age limit for old people to remarry. "Twilight love" for singles is reasonable, reasonable and legal. Some elderly people even seek marriage online. Nowadays, the new marriage registration procedures have also been simplified. If you want to save face, just register quietly. There is a legal procedure, and the money from the wedding banquet can be used for tourism and scenery. Besides, if unmarried cohabitation is legal and illegal, if there is a change in the future, it will lead to many unclear and unclear disputes. Unmarried cohabitation is not recognized by law. According to the national marriage law, marriage registration is regulated and the implementation of a marriage system that guarantees freedom of marriage, monogamy, and equality between men and women is also a reflection of social civilization.

Or use legal channels to protect rights according to law. For the few children who "only care about money and no regard for family affection" who unreasonably obstruct remarriage in old age, they have to go to court and sue them for illegal interference in the freedom of marriage. If there is a stalemate, the children can be deprived of their inheritance rights according to law.

At present, China’s elderly population over 60 years old has reached 134 million, and is growing at an average annual rate of 3.2%. my country has become a typical elderly society that “gets old before getting rich”. The National People's Congress has included rights protection "love at dusk" as an important part of safeguarding the legitimate rights and interests of the elderly. "Love at dusk" and remarriage in old age are the legitimate rights and interests of the elderly. "Twilight love" does not want "the shy rose to bloom quietly", but "the sister (brother) boldly moves forward"!