What should I do if I find my child being bullied on campus?

1. First of all, calm the children's emotions and hug them more.

Ask the child if he has only been subjected to verbal violence or physical violence on campus. Check your child's body for bruises and bruises. If so, go to the hospital as soon as possible. It is necessary to put the child's physical safety first, at the same time appease the child and have a good chat with the child. Not only physical health, but also mental health should be paid more attention. Let the child know that his parents are his solid backing. When you are in danger on campus, you should speak out when you go home, and don't take it to heart. Parents will definitely seek justice for their children.

2. Contact the leader of the school teacher immediately to find out the real situation. Sometimes children encounter campus violence, there may be some deviations in the description process, or they may be afraid of retaliation from each other afterwards and hide something. At this time, it is necessary to contact the school leaders and restore the truth to obtain monitoring. If the other party really carries out verbal violence and physical violence against their children. The other party must apologize in person and bear the medical losses. At the same time, the other parent must also know what her own child has done. Schools, families and children should be present.

3. Refuse to negotiate privately to handle the direct alarm. If the other parent refuses to negotiate privately, the best way is to call the police directly. This is the most effective and powerful preventive measure. Only when the public security department is involved, schools and parents will realize the seriousness of this matter, otherwise they will only think it is a trivial matter and handle it. This will leave a lifelong shadow in the child's heart. For children, only the person who apologizes violently can eliminate the shadow in his heart. Otherwise, even if the matter is solved, in the child's heart, that person still does not apologize, and there will still be fear in his heart. Only by standing in the sun and apologizing can we solve the child's psychological shadow.

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If campus violence is allowed to happen, without apology, solution or consultation, but gradually forgotten over time, then it is acquiescence to the occurrence of campus violence. It will be harmful to children and society in the near future. Therefore, we should bravely say "no" to campus violence. In case of campus violence, we should take up legal weapons to protect ourselves and negotiate with parents and teachers to protect ourselves from infringement. If you never know how to resist and dare not tell your teachers or parents, then such violence will only continue. Don't think that the other person will feel sorry for himself because he feels sorry for himself. It's just a breeding ground for evil. Schools, families and society should all do something in this respect and build buildings. Don't let your students or children, the future of the motherland become the object of violence, and don't let yourself be the one who violence others. Let's work together to build a harmonious campus environment.