? A person's best lifestyle: no gossip, no meddling, no idleness.

Everyone has his own way of life. You can't measure other people's lives with your ruler.

What's more, we can't care so much. It's enough to live your own life.

For the rest of life, the best way for a person to live is: don't gossip, mind your own business, and don't be idle.

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Not gossiping is breeding.

There is a saying in "Motto Hanging on the Wall": "Sitting still, always thinking about yourself, gossip is irrelevant."

On a small scale, gossip is just a few words of gossip after dinner; To put it bluntly, gossip is to speculate and evaluate the low-quality performance of others at will.

No matter big or small, your image will be greatly discounted in the hearts of others every time you say a gossip.

Slowly, you will find that fewer and fewer people are willing to talk to you and fewer and fewer people are willing to listen to you.

Buddhists often say "oral business", and they are creating their own business by talking hurtful gossip.

Ruan, the first generation actress in China, put three bottles of sleeping pills in porridge and committed suicide by taking medicine.

At that time, she was only 25 years old. She is in love and has a bright future.

The fuse was because a tabloid commented on her private life and made malicious speculation.

In your unscrupulous gossip, the truth has long been unrecognizable.

Later, public opinion mutinied, Ruan was at a loss and resolutely left this world.

Gossip about right and wrong can kill people without seeing blood, but if you live a lot, karma will come to you sooner or later.

As the saying goes: "The depth of the water is silent, the stability of people is silent, the heart is good, and the line is long."

The most basic accomplishment and kindness of a person is to keep his mouth shut and not gossip.

Because you never know what others have experienced, you are not qualified to gossip and judge behind your back.

Be a man, don't go with the flow, learn to be a wise man who doesn't listen to gossip and doesn't talk about other people's affairs.

Kind-hearted, cautious in words and deeds, and not gossiping are our wisdom in life and our lifelong practice.

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To meddle is to cultivate one's morality.

"The Story of Awakening Marriage" said: "If you don't do it, you will do it."

There are only three things in this world: your own business, others' business and God's business.

God's business has nothing to do with us We must mind our own business, not other people's.

The biggest stupidity of a person is to meddle in other people's affairs at will, thinking that he is very enthusiastic, but in fact he will get into trouble with others and feel uncomfortable.

I once saw a joke, but it was very profound.

A child was eating ice cream when an adult suddenly came up to him and said, "Son, eating ice cream is not good for your health."

Unexpectedly, after hearing this, the child asked the adults an irrelevant question: "My grandmother lived 100 years. Do you know why? "

The adults joked, "Is it because you don't eat ice cream?"

The child said, "No, because my grandmother never meddles."

It's really not our turn to worry about other people's affairs, so don't always try to interfere with others with your own requirements.

There is a cloud in the poem: "Before the court, the door is closed regardless of the month, and plum blossoms are paid alone."

Don't care about other people's lives, good or bad, it doesn't matter.

Otherwise, meddling will only make others suffer and waste their time and energy.

Mind your own hands and mind other people's business, making people feel comfortable and happy. This is the real win-win situation.

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Don't be idle, it's maintenance.

There is an old saying in China: "Idle people are worried, lazy people are sick, and busy people are happy."

It is a blessing to take time off from busy work, but an idle person will be discouraged and may even become a disaster.

Being an idle person, doing nothing, it is easy to think, and being lazy will worry about getting sick.

Learn to find something to do for yourself, and your heart will be full of fun and your body will be full of vitality.

90-year-old Qi Baishi still insists on writing, insisting on painting five pictures every day.

But only once, on his birthday, he was busy entertaining guests from morning till night At night, he lacked energy and fell asleep when he lay down.

After getting up the next day, he didn't eat a meal, so he would start painting with a pen, and no one would stop.

He said to his family, "I didn't draw yesterday, so I need to draw more today to make up for yesterday's leisure."

With the fame of Qi Lao, no name is needed; In his later years, he will not make a profit.

He just feels that daily activities, drawing and writing, on the contrary, have a lot less ideas and more childlike innocence, and the whole person can be much more comfortable.

Not being an idle person is Qi Baishi's way of encouraging himself, and it is also the best maintenance for his body and mind.

For example, "Persuade People" said: "I don't see that idle people have long energy, but I see that they work hard."

People, when they are busy, will forget their troubles, forget their age and forget their time.

People who are restless, full of life and happy have no time to get old, but their bodies will get younger and younger.

Walking in the world, you can relax and adjust yourself occasionally, but you can't be an idle person and neglect yourself.

Being busy can cure all troubles and is also the best health care in the world.

I hope you and I don't gossip, don't meddle, be idle people all our lives, confidently and firmly move towards the future and a better life.