What do you do when your husband calls you a loser in front of your family?

First of all, you should know whether he was joking or angry when he told you. If he's joking, you can tell him that you're a loser, too. How else would you like me? I usually joke with my husband about this, and he always jokes with me. If he is angry and serious about you, what I want to say is that you are husband and wife, and you should be frank about everything. Don't worry about anything. Find a quiet time when you two are alone. Tell him what he said about you, tell him what you think. If he still loves you, he will tell you where he is wrong. A man who loves his wife should be a gentleman if it is such a trivial matter. That depends on you. How many years have you been married? How are your feelings these years? Do you have any children? That's what I thought. Anyway, that's how my own affairs are solved. I hope it helps you. Finally, I want to say that women should be kind to themselves, relax, and know that there are no obstacles in the world, so everything is just a cloud!